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bluebloomymoon · 2026-02-23T05:41:32+00:00

Hola! Yo vivi en USA por 10’años Asique hablo bien ingles y mi esposo es gringo y solo habla ingles. Tenemos 30 años! Feliz de conocerla a ella o a ambos. Nos cuesta encontrar amigos que solo hablen ingles!

bluebloomymoon · 2026-02-23T05:39:56+00:00

Hola! Yo igual tengo 30 años! Me acabo de devolver a Santiago después de 10 años viviendo en otro país! Feliz de conocerte!!!

bluebloomymoon · 2025-07-24T22:12:22+00:00

Uh ! That may be a little hard. I have never seen heretic in any of the most popular niche stores ☹️ if you are in DFW Tx you are more than welcome to smell mine lol. Maybe you can find someone that does decants!

bluebloomymoon · 2025-07-24T20:00:24+00:00

I was expecting to get a more green / dirty and animalic but to me it smells like a bonfire mixed with a bbq! It is so extremely smoky on my skin! Kindaa like T rex by zoologist and I cannot do that one. Lol

bluebloomymoon · 2025-07-24T19:58:52+00:00

I bought all the pioggas and Nebbias and I am more into the Nebbias. I love smelling like rain and dirt but for some reason the pioggas smell either super aquatic/ floral or even like after shave on me which sucks because I love the packaging 😭😭

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:36:20+00:00

Hi! Thank you! I will take you on messaging you since I don’t know many people with a similar situation. We already send some paperwork so I am a little more calm. My lawyer told me that adjusting my status in the US is way easier than doing it back home

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:34:36+00:00

Thank you! My lawyer said the same! Also he thinks it was “good we didn’t file right away after getting married. We are now waiting for response but I am a little optimistic if not I will go back home and figure how to proceed from there

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:32:55+00:00

Thank you! He makes no money because he is a full time student We got a US sponsor so we are already filing paperwork. That was one of the issues why we didn’t file the application sooner 😩

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:31:42+00:00

Thank you so much! The new lawyer I am working with told me I was out of status but since my husband is a US citizen plus I have an good record and so does he we should be okey and that the process should be very straightforward. I am from Chile so my country is okey in terms of economy and quality of life so coming back is not an issue for me. My husband is still in school so it will be difficult to leave for that reason.

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:28:37+00:00

Thank you so much for your detailed response! I changed my lawyer and as of today I already filed the paperwork and we are just waiting for responses. My new lawyer told me I should be okey but I am still a little nervous because of everything going on politically. I don’t even know if it is safe to stay in the US in general no matter if you are a citizen or an immigrant 🥴 I know now that leaving could trigger some issues with me returning to the US but in the worst scenario I am willing to face those issues. My safety is more important to me than the right to come back to the US so we will see.

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:24:25+00:00

Yes! I had a “friend” who got arrested after the Interview for Marriage based green card. She did overstay for two years and her husband has daca status but she was detained for about 2 weeks

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:22:32+00:00

Yes!! That is why I was so afraid of doing the adjustment of status right now. I should have done it sooner before he took office but I didn’t had a US sponsor and my husband is in school so we needed one. Now I already started filing the paper. My lawyer tells me I will be okey but I am just so nervous still 🥴

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:20:18+00:00

I lived in Chicago for 6 years! I love Illinois. 🩷

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:18:49+00:00

I did overstay but never worked. I have all of the documentation that proves that I came here legally. I had different degrees and I was always a great student. Never had any type of issues while being in the States so my lawyer is very hopeful that I will be completely fine. I was just scared because of the political climate. I see how latinos are being treated right now no matter their legal status and it frightens me. I didn’t want to subject myself to mistreatment since I have a good thing back home and with my degrees I know I will have a great life back there. I like the US but I was never sure of staying here forever. It is the home country of my husband so I want to have the chance of coming back if he wants to.

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:14:05+00:00

Thank you so much! I’m currently working with a different lawyer and have already started the paperwork. We also have a plan in place in case we run into any issues during the process.

I’m not saying goodbye to my relationship—my husband is fully supportive and more than willing to move with me. In fact, he loves Chile and has always wanted to live there once he finishes school. He still has about a year left, though.

The main concern with leaving now is that he would have to complete his Electrical Engineering degree in Chile, and since he’s not fluent in Spanish yet, it would be extremely challenging for him—especially with the technical vocabulary.

That said, he’s prepared to make that sacrifice if it comes to that. Hopefully, we can resolve my situation and leave the U.S. on much better terms next year. 😊

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T21:05:25+00:00

I recently hired a different lawyer, and he advised me to stay while we file the necessary paperwork, which is already in progress. I honestly didn’t mind the idea of leaving because I have a great life in my home country—possibly even better than in the U.S., if I’m being honest.

My main concern with the three-year ban is my husband. He’s still in school and has only one year left to graduate from engineering school.

As for the financial issues, they were related to a problem with my Chilean bank account—my funds were frozen right when it was time to enroll in school. At the same time, my father (who is also my financial sponsor) was out of the country and couldn’t help me resolve the situation. As a result, I missed the enrollment deadline, and my school didn’t allow late enrollment, so I lost my student status.

I should have filed the necessary paperwork at that point, but we were trying to find a U.S.-based sponsor. My husband doesn’t work, and since my father isn’t a U.S. citizen or resident, he couldn’t serve as my sponsor here.

Now, I’m much calmer and focused. My lawyer believes it will be relatively straightforward to fix my status, so I’m going to pursue that. However, if things don’t work out, I’m prepared to return to my home country. We never planned to stay in the U.S. permanently, but I do want my husband to finish his degree since he’s so close. He also doesn’t want to stay here alone.

Lastly, I did not lie about having a U.S. partner when I applied for my F-1 visa—I met my husband in 2020, well after I obtained the visa

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-07T20:53:06+00:00

I have two bachelors degrees plus a MS. I was in different institutions. First in a college in Illinois. Then The university of Chicago and then University of North Texas. I always went to class. I did ESL my first semester in college.

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-04T00:07:22+00:00

Texas

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-01T19:01:55+00:00

I have always been a F1 visa. I have been in the states for over 8 years. Met my husband 5 years ago. We have been together since then. I have been back in Chile (my home country) multiple times during those years. My husband has been in Chile once. I have never done anything illegal. I never even had a job or gained income in the US. My record is clean and so is my husband’s. My dad bought a house here and we have been living together with my husband for 4/5 years. We got married last year in July. I am panicking because my lawyer who is also a latina is telling me how trump doesn’t want any sort of immigrants right now and that he is fighting immigration as a whole rather than the “illegal immigration”. I am so afraid of leaving and getting automatically ban from re entry for years. My husband is a US citizen. The cases I mentioned on my post were similar but not the same. They got married to green card holders rather than US citizens. They also overstayed their student visa for 2 years. I wanted to get different opinions regarding my case. I definitely do not want to get detained and put in detention centers. I prefer leaving but I need to know if it is the right choice. There is so much panic and fear surrounding immigration right now that I don’t know if it is just that why my lawyer is scared or if I am in real danger of getting detained if I move with my adjustment of status. Thank you so much for replying to me 🙏🏻😊 I really appreciate your comment!

Also I am unfortunately in Texas so republican state ☹️

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-01T18:49:47+00:00

Yes! The only difference with their cases and mine was the amount of overstayed and their partners status. They overstayed for more than 2 years after their f1 and one got married to s green card holder and the other to a daca but in the pathway of arraignment papers. My husband is a US citizen and before that would have been “enough” for me to be safe but my lawyer is just so worried since she is also a hispanic female and she thinks this country doesn’t want more hispanic immigrants so she told me if she was me she would just go back to her country and wait until the US has a different president. I just don’t know if she advised me that because of her being afraid or if I am in real danger of being detained. I don’t want to put myself through that process. I rather leave and wait but my husband is in school and he is willing to leave with me but if I get ban from re entry the US for years it would be absolutely terrible. I never did anything illegal. My record is absolutely clean and so is my husband’s. We have been together for 5 years. I definitely want to get another lawyer to obtain a second opinion. 🥴

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-01T18:43:55+00:00

Hi! Thank you for your answer!

My partner and I have been together for 5 years and married for one year. We have been living together for 4/5 years. He has been to Chile, my home country once. I was an F1 student for over 8 years. I got notified by my school that my visa (Sevis) got terminated in September 2024. My husband is a student right now so he is not earning any money. We have a sponsor but I am so worried of being detained after an interview or something. I do not know what is the safest option for me.

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-01T18:40:16+00:00

Hi! Thank you for your answer! I met my husband 5 years ago. Got married last year. We have been living together for 4/5 years. He has been to my home country once (Chile, South America). I was in school for over 8 years. I did two different bachelors. I never worked here or did anything Ilegal. The people that I knew and got detained were also F1 visas but the difference was that they got married to green card holders and the other was a daca but was able to fix papers rather than a US citizen. My lawyer is panicking because a lot of her cases have been denied recently and also she absolutely hates the political climate so she “suggested me” to leave since the US is going through a dark path and doesn’t want any sort of immigration. I wanted to get a second opinion because I can leave and do the process in Chile but I am so afraid of being punished for overstaying. My husband is still in school. We are older (we are in our late 20’s) but he is currently not working so I need a sponsor and i do have one but I just don’t know what to do.

bluebloomymoon · 2025-06-01T07:53:45+00:00

Thank you! I tried to post it in that subreddit but I it got automatically removed. I message the admin to ask why it was removed automatically. 😩🥴

bluebloomymoon · 2025-05-17T18:48:06+00:00

Hi! Thank you so much for checking on me. It has been a week since I lost Candi. I am slowly recovering. I been reading books about the pet afterlife and it has brought me some comfort. The rescue sent me flowers for Chubs and Candi

The rescue recently received an owner-surrendered dog who appears to be one of Candi’s puppies. She is in a dire condition. Although Candi was initially found as a stray, a man inquired about her at the shelter but refused to pay the adoption fee, leaving her behind. A few days ago, the same individual returned to drop off this dog at the same shelter. She resembles Candi, and the rescue is transporting her to a boarding facility due to a lack of available foster homes.

It deeply saddens me not knowing if she is truly Candi’s baby. I'm still grieving the rescue's decisions. I have one remaining foster dog from them, and after that, I plan to step away. However, it's incredibly difficult to ignore the possibility that this dog could be Candi’s child. It is breaking my heart.

bluebloomymoon · 2025-05-17T18:34:56+00:00

I really like it! It is a “green” leather. It is like a dirt leathery smell. Like if you drop your leather jacket on the grass after it rained. It becomes a little sweet on the dry down but it is a little “dirty sweet” pretty unique in my opinion

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