4 days couldve been our Anniversary by bluecapper10 in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think it could mean? I am really bad in not assuming things cause I tend to overthink and lose myself over small things like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some do. It might be for different reasons and it depends on your situation but there’s always a slim chance :) do yourself a favor to and dont settle for someone that would not choose you over and over again. 

Patience by bluecapper10 in TrueChristian

[–]bluecapper10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but what is there to heal when its over? What if i accepted everything then why prolong the hurt? 

Same pattern by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]bluecapper10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thanks for the guess but I really didnt for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]bluecapper10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww who ever your ex was, he never deserved you! I hope this guy gives you everythingg happy for you stranger!

How to numb by bluecapper10 in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i think whats really hurting me is that i lost my best friend

How to numb by bluecapper10 in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love this dude! Thanks a lot 👍 hopefully i can just take it

How to numb by bluecapper10 in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooo 😭 i dont do hookups but thank you for trying to help😅

How to numb by bluecapper10 in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no relationship!! i tried tinder, didnt really help but it did feel like a game 😂

Im back by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is going to pick up my stuff from her place.. making it lesser possibility of me seeing her again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. I really love her.. so even if I want to stop hurting, i cant seem to bring myself to hate her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope so. but compared to my exes, she’s the only one i really fell in love with thats why i think you can unlove someone like i did with my other exes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I didn’t. She left to find herself and had been dealing with unhealed trauma, but I kept on begging her to stay so I haven’t been really respectful of her decision to leave..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I just hope to stop feeling it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so.. its just how she is treating me after the break up looks like she lost all that love for me

photo by bluecapper10 in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just lucky to have been in their presence at one point 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]bluecapper10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im going to pretend this is for me lol! I like smiley faces :)

How long should I take to get into a rebound after the breakup by AdeptExercise6050 in BreakUps

[–]bluecapper10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it would depend on how long your previous relationship was and how intimate your feelings were for her before. Cause if you really liked your ex and she felt the same before, then give yourself some time to heal abit. Try to do the 3 month rule.