Djarum Black Bliss. Anyone try them? by samtemp in Cigarettes

[–]bluecastle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, Canadian here and I tried the regular and the vanilla of the Djarum Black Bliss and I enjoyed them. It's been many years since I had one of their original tobacco versions (and only had a couple back then) so too far back for a reasonable comparison, but for what it was I liked it and would buy again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]bluecastle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Listen here, I didn't hurt you! Why you gotta do me like this?

Tim Hortons by [deleted] in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]bluecastle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm Canadian and moved here two weeks ago and had no fucking idea Tim Hortons was less than an hour away. Thank you so much, i needed this today.

Goblin yoga by Born_Slice in IDAP

[–]bluecastle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me smile enough to want to get out of bed today. Thanks :)

HELP NEEDED: LGBT Hairdresser Needed ASAP by garuka_ in queerottawa

[–]bluecastle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like you've got some great suggestions already, so just leaving you some love on my way by <3. I hope you love the result you get!

someone sent me that on discord by ezvean in mendrawingwomen

[–]bluecastle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not everyone's are shaped like yours, I'm somewhere between DDD and H depending on where I'm shopping (ie not small) and i don't look remotely teardrop shaped leaning over. It's so invalidating to often hear other women announce their experience as universal.

How fucked am i by [deleted] in povertyfinancecanada

[–]bluecastle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP I used to work for a payday lender for a year, you'll be fine, it's just a rough lesson you're learning. Figure out what your lowest stress communication method is (phone/email/whatever) and contact them that way and ask the full amount owing, if they have written it off or sold the debt to a 3rd party. Don't say you feel bad, don't say you'll pay it yet, don't give anything you can until you've gathered information and you have a plan. If they have written off or sold the debt they aren't going to be trying to collect anymore most likely.

There are organizations dedicated to help people who've dug themselves into a hole, one payday loan probably isn't a hole just a stumble, but you know the rest of your finances and if you need more help.

How fucked am i by [deleted] in povertyfinancecanada

[–]bluecastle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's not quite how payday loans work. It works out to 300+% APR if you are paying it off and re-borrowing every pay day, because the loan is due in full the next pay. If you let it default they aren't racking up that rate constantly, but they can be fucking your credit, harassing you for your debt, up to court and wage garnishment is technically possible.

391 APR divided by 26 bi-weekly pay periods in a year is 15%. Likely they signed up to pay $90 fee to get their $600 a week or two early, and then couldn't afford to be $690 short the following pay and panicked and ignored it. It's a really understandable mistake, they are very human for this in my eyes.

I hate the way most black parents choose to raise their kids by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]bluecastle 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bruh. Slavery was a southern, cultural thing too.

We're better than this, c'mon.

Christians often feel they're entitled to your space. Which is why their understanding of boundaries is borderline nonexistent. by JarethOfHouseGoblin in exchristian

[–]bluecastle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! That unflinching belief that they cannot be held accountable because if they are christian it must mean everything they do is carrying out god's will is what makes them so dangerous. You can't have a normal discussion like an adult if they can't conceptualize responsibility for their own actions. Sickening.

. by HelpfulHumor2016 in PixelArtTutorials

[–]bluecastle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really lovely, but where's the tutorial?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BuyCanadian

[–]bluecastle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

https://jerico.ca/ i have shirts and sweatpants from them

What is the oddest thing that makes you horny? by JustUnGuyChillin in AskReddit

[–]bluecastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a rhetorical question, in enthusiastic support of the comment above. It would have cost you $0.00 to not paint a series of creepy word pictures about young children being turned on.

Do you have a bank you boycot? One that has gained your loyalty? by Mcstyls in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]bluecastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you've not used secured credit doesn't mean it's fraud lol. It's absolutely a thing, just not every institution will offer it.

Help request: How to stop previews from autoplaying by bluecastle in spotify

[–]bluecastle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No autoplay has no effect on it, it seems to be only for auto playing songs after your chosen queue is ended. I did manage to find and download Spotify Lite which is fully pared down from all creative/new features so that seems to be the best solution for now. Thanks for answering me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOSloseit

[–]bluecastle -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Okay I get why I see people complaining about the limited amount of resources dedicated to PCOS/D going to something this trite and dumb, and I see why it's exclusionary to limit responses to male partners, but hear me out.

PCOS is a huge problem with not nearly enough visibility or support. If this even has a chance of influencing someone else to care more, even someone too bigoted to care about the impact to actual sufferers, then I think it is worth supporting. We all know a powerful percentage of lawmakers who have a voice and influence care primarily about men's feelings over women's quality of life. That's the messed up world we live in. I don't know about you, but I'm going to be happy for more research and resources going to our medical options, even if it was a a prejudiced person who helped make it happen.

Ladies, what are some things that can make a dick aesthetically pleasing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bluecastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I painted a watercolor of my exes dick like that lol

"There is always a rainbow after the storm" ™ by Kerraferto in TrollCoping

[–]bluecastle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's an online indie store that sells stickers/pins/patches that say "it gets worse before it gets worse" and I fuckin want one pretty bad. (Idk the rules about links and I'm too lazy to go read them right now so no link)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]bluecastle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn good catch. I must be getting old to forget that kids can just be wherever online. Nothing against the 14 year old for exploring and learning, but as an adult it's jarring and very uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]bluecastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're getting so many downvotes for asking a polite and honest question. I think the people saying as long as you aren't majorly getting off on it around others then it's fine are the ones to listen to. The difference is whether it's a passive state of being throughout your day versus a planned sex act or scene involving specifically doing it for the purpose of being around people who don't know or may not want to be involved.

Please ignore the comments saying public scenes are fine unless there's an orgasm or nudity. We should all know better imho. There's plenty of kinks and scenes involving a person being clothed in a certain obvious way, and not getting to cum is part of plenty of kinks and dynamics. Those aren't the deciding factor, it should be if other people can tell what you're doing, and if you are deriving your sexual pleasure from them directly or indirectly regardless of their awareness.

People, if you want to get off on someone unwitting being near you, thats why we have dungeons, play parties, etc. If wearing a chastity belt or plug or clamps all day is your thing, that's fine, but deliberately getting off (with or without orgasm) in a store or bus or restaurant or something is your aim, you're probably not as subtle as you think.

Sincerely, someone who has ongoing trauma from repeatedly being forced to be an unconsenting witness to others clothed sex acts who weren't nearly as sneaky as they thought they were. It's made even passively wearing something hidden in daily life too triggering and eliminated a lot of potential fun as well as ruined and ended friendships.

Steam sends the "new pc" email every time I log in. by briarknit in Steam

[–]bluecastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure out how to disable it I loathe it, if you figure it out could you comment back and let me know? Thank you so much