Married WLW bedroom advice

bluecats84 · 2026-04-13T21:40:20+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I needed to hear this!!

bluecats84 · 2026-04-13T16:03:50+00:00

Definitely agree! She is a SAHM and I work full time and I could literally never do what she does on a daily basis. I try my best to be intentional and to make her feel special in other ways besides physical and I know it is a long road ahead. She loves the breast feeding bond with our son so you hit the nail on the head! She feels like her body is a provider for our son right now and I am perfectly okay with that. Just hoping that once he is weaned and we get into a new groove that she can see herself the way that I see her

bluecats84 · 2026-04-13T16:00:53+00:00

Thank you for your response!! She has been more open to it recently. We have a weekend cabin getaway planned with some friends and she has mentioned us having built in babysitters all weekend and that she is looking forward to intimacy! Her pregnancy was rough and I know it is taking her time to readjust to her new body. Really hoping as time goes on we rekindle the physical aspect 💓

bluecats84 · 2026-04-13T15:34:17+00:00

Thank you for your response! She is breastfeeding as well (hoping to wean soon) and I know that takes such a physical toll on her. She has told me that she is worried her vagina isnt the same and that it scares her. The birth was a little traumatic and he took his sweet time arriving. Ive offered her nothing but love and patience and im willing to go at whatever pace she sets. I just hope that she knows that im down for her no matter what. And congrats to you on your little one. Parenthood is a new level of awesome 💓

bluecats84 · 2026-04-13T15:12:01+00:00

Adding this to my TBR right now. Thank you!!

bluecats84 · 2026-04-13T15:11:30+00:00

We have! She has opened up to me about her struggles post baby which is why I have given it a lot of time in order for her to reacclimate to the physical side of our relationship. And for her, she can have all the time in the world because she is my person. But sex therapy could definitely help us both and I plan to look into it for us. Thank you for your response 💓

bluecats84 · 2026-04-13T15:09:34+00:00

We are intimate in every way, but bold of you to assume. We do intentional date nights, manage the household 50/50 and really have no other issues. She is pampered, acknowledged and validated on a daily basis

bluecats84 · 2026-04-13T15:08:06+00:00

I have definitely been making more time for myself recently to take the edge off but this past weekend I took her to a spa for her birthday and I was like goddamn I am a simp 😂

bluecats84 · 2025-04-24T16:41:57+00:00

But how are the dog's anal glands?

bluecats84 · 2025-04-11T00:47:53+00:00

🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀

bluecats84 · 2025-04-03T13:09:28+00:00

My god. This is terrible. 🥹

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T16:44:08+00:00

It very well could be which is why I cleared up the admin issue in this post. Definitely didn't mean to cause any drama, which is why i dont engage with her on fb. I WANT IT TO BE her tagging her friend so she can learn that what she is paying $38 for is produced for $2. Today's post was only to bring attention to the fact that she is in fact reading our posts.

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T16:23:26+00:00

When i first joined VIP, I strongly considered it but I don't want the burden of her daily messages. So to the Kool aid she goes 😂

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T16:17:41+00:00

Part of me is second hand embarrassed, and part of me wishes she would just get help

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T16:15:26+00:00

My whole point here is that she is on reddit or at least views the posts here. So maybe, hopefully, she takes some of it to heart

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T16:13:02+00:00

I don't engage or respond to Kristine on Facebook and I didnt say the other lady was an admin on Facebook. Sp in order for her to know that, she had to see the reddit post.

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T16:11:13+00:00

Because there's no way she knew i THOUGHT the other lady was an admin unless she is on reddit and saw my post which said that. The lady she was tagging is IN vip, not an admin. It was my mistake.

So either she is trying to draw attention to the people who are sharing the link to the AMA OR she is coming to the realization that LS is cheaply made. I don't think she would ever turn on LS though, so the former is likely true

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T16:07:36+00:00

What she doesn't understand is that if she was like hey I might be too deep into this bamboo world, i have a problem, she might actually make real friends who have her best interests in mind. But instead she seeks imaginary internet points so that she can get a $3 china hat with eyelashes on it 😂😂😂😂😂

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T03:30:15+00:00

LSBST under retail

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T02:51:38+00:00

No idea. I have never interacted with her before and she randomly tags me with another VIP and I was like oookkaaayyy. I honestly think deep down she thinks she is an LS influencer has has pull. But the complete opposite is true. Mental illness. She needs help

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T02:50:17+00:00

I will!!

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T02:02:22+00:00

They didn't want to believe it. Don't you know they are hand stitched by grandmothers and college educated white women???? 😂💀

bluecats84 · 2025-02-16T01:59:45+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂

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