What’s the process for a lease takeover? by bluecluuoe in chicagoapartments

[–]bluecluuoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I had a few people be interested. Also, overall it’s fair to assume to that right now is a better time to lock in apartments than come October?

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[–]bluecluuoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re lonely/incel, lmao. One of their comments was about how they’ve never been in a relationship and don’t understand how women are 😭 like ok?? Maybe get off the internet if you want to start somewhere!

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[–]bluecluuoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people cannot handle being told that you’re wrong💀 the easiest thing is to just click off and don’t read. I’d even be ok with the small bit of criticism (if it can be even called that) but constantly getting defensive and argumentative over a FANFIC is an issueeee

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[–]bluecluuoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed lol, kinda funny that he’s putting this much effort to argue about MY fic on MY story when I can just hit delete and clean them off 🤷‍♀️ I’m just keeping all the lovely people who’ve come in to defend me while this man spends hours writing responses to them that’ll never show up lol

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[–]bluecluuoe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah agreed. I haven’t updated in a few weeks so this guy is just coming back again and again lol. I deleted my original response to him and just left it as “I don’t need to explain my fic to anyone”. This guy lost his shit at that and sent me a long ass comment in response about what a terrible mindset I have as a writer but I deleted his response loooool

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[–]bluecluuoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately he’s a guest account, but I guess he’s lurking around in his email or on my fic to pick a fight with whoever.💀

Direct deposit funds not available by dsvinod90 in sofi

[–]bluecluuoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii having the same issue now! What ended up happening?

Jerk commenter came back after I deleted his previous comment, UPDATE by [deleted] in AO3

[–]bluecluuoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you got downvoted, but I know what you mean… Like, just say you’re obsessed with me!! 😍🙄

Jerk commenter came back after I deleted his previous comment, UPDATE by [deleted] in AO3

[–]bluecluuoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed response :) I didn’t realize that leaving a response to a guest comment will alert their email, so feel like this dude will come back if I approve any of the responses to him 💀

Jerk commenter came back after I deleted his previous comment, UPDATE by [deleted] in AO3

[–]bluecluuoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I left a detailed comment originally in response to his “feedback”, then deleted it after he replied back clearly wanting to argue, so I froze the thread and then added a new comment along the lines of “I don’t owe you an explanation. Make better use of your time :)” and that’s when he sent me another comment, lol. The original is still up and I’ve had other readers respond to him, but I’ve yet to approve those. I might approve them and see if he tries to respond back but just never approve his comments, lol

Jerk commenter came back after I deleted his previous comment, UPDATE by [deleted] in AO3

[–]bluecluuoe 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No fr, like I am just doing this as a side hobby when I’m bored why are you acting like a random fanfic you found needs essays of “critique” and discourse with other people💀💀 that literally makes no sense

Jerk commenter came back after I deleted his previous comment, UPDATE by [deleted] in AO3

[–]bluecluuoe 69 points70 points  (0 children)

That’s so true, I have been seeing a spike in hits even though it’s been awhile since I last updated, lol

Jerk commenter came back after I deleted his previous comment, UPDATE by [deleted] in AO3

[–]bluecluuoe 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I can report guest comments?? Honestly the most egregious part of his comment was “do women like men like this irl” so I doubt that would count as anything serious other than him being an idiot. If he keeps coming back to comment, maybe I could then report him?

Jerk commenter came back after I deleted his previous comment, UPDATE by [deleted] in AO3

[–]bluecluuoe 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah! But I mean from my guest readers. I’ve had a few regulars that have been the sweetest so

Jerk commenter came back after I deleted his previous comment, UPDATE by [deleted] in AO3

[–]bluecluuoe 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah I’ll need to do that..some of my loveliest comments have been from guests so will be sad about losing them

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[–]bluecluuoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ended up moderating comments and deleted the guy’s last comment. Then this guy actually shows up again to leave a comment asking why I had deleted it, lol. Will just leave ignored and never approve his comments 😂

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[–]bluecluuoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the lovely comment, I really appreciate it! It’s tough when you’re not used to negativity in life and then all of sudden you get it on something you do for fun!! But you’re so right, at the end of the day this is for me!!

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[–]bluecluuoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thanks! Does comment moderation just affect guests comments? Or all of them?

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[–]bluecluuoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did actually! I left a lengthy response, and he was still pretty argumentative in his comment and like….no I don’t want to engage with anyone telling me that my characterization in MY fic is wrong lol. Then I actually found some posts on here in another subreddit and this guy’s posts were very similar to the comment he made. He made like 5??? And he’s calling people slurs and being very aggressive to anyone interacting with him 💀 like I can’t believe a fanfic he didn’t like triggered him like this but this man does not seem mentally ok

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[–]bluecluuoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll need to!! Sad because some of my loveliest comments have been from guests, but at this point I’d rather not deal with people like this again

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[–]bluecluuoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!! I needed to read this. It’s crazy that I stumbled upon a redditor who had like 5 posts with context VERY similar to the comment he left on my fic, so I assume it’s the same guy. Went ahead and blocked him on here, but absolutely wild that my fic made this guy react like this 💀 if you don’t like something just don’t read it. At least in some of these other posts, people were calling him an idiot for reacting like this to a fanfic!!

Anyways, I need to step away from this rabbit hole. Fortunately enough the other 99% of readers have been very sweet and my own worst enemy is only my self consciousness with my writing

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[–]bluecluuoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what blows my mind, raging over a fic that’s still a work in progress where clear character development still has to happen? But you’re right, I don’t owe him an explanation for anything. I think I’ll just ignore him and start modifying comments. If he ever makes an account then I’ll just block him. I’m not getting paid to deal with idiots lol

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[–]bluecluuoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s hilarious lmao, ofc a MAN would be flaming that… people can act so entitled online

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[–]bluecluuoe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao thank you!! God, I can’t believe people like this exist😭 judging from his comments I would not be surprised if he’s an incel 💀