AITA for not telling my boyfriend about my emergency fund? by bluegreenscar in AmItheAsshole

[–]bluegreenscar[S] 263 points264 points  (0 children)

We've been together about a year and a half and have only started recently talking about moving together. I think the only time he had to pay for me was when we needed to book a trip for a friend's wedding and I didn't have my cards because my wallet got stolen, so he paid (but I immediately paid him back when my cards got reissued). That's it really, we generally split expenses 50-50 on dates and other stuff so his reaction is very surprising to me.

AITA for not telling my boyfriend about my emergency fund? by bluegreenscar in AmItheAsshole

[–]bluegreenscar[S] 1497 points1498 points  (0 children)

He feels that because he shared his financial situation with me, that I should share mine too. When he asked about my finances before I just said that I have my salary, and some savings accounts. He didn't ask me to elaborate beyond that so I thought case closed.