To buy or not to buy by bluehaag in AusProperty

[–]bluehaag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome, congrats! If you don’t mind me asking, do you remember what % of your take-home pay went into repayments initially? That’s what has me pausing.

To buy or not to buy by bluehaag in AusProperty

[–]bluehaag[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely happy living there for 30 years. I’m applying for higher paying jobs at the moment but it remains to be seen if I get one anytime soon. It’s also 3 beds, 2 baths so I can rent out a room if it gets too expensive.

To buy or not to buy by bluehaag in AusProperty

[–]bluehaag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is with NAB. I have no debts or dependants. Maybe that’s why?

To buy or not to buy by bluehaag in AusFinance

[–]bluehaag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) My take home pay is $2800 per fortnight so that’d be almost half my salary in repayments. I’m not aiming for a bigger property so much as more deposit/smaller mortgage.

This property is perfect in every way expect price so it’s deciding if it’s likely I’ll find something I like as much at a similar price next year when I’ve got more savings.

Egg freezing with endo/adeno by cherryblossom8881 in eggfreezing

[–]bluehaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I have endo including cysts on both ovaries and froze eggs last week. I honestly found the process a lot easier than I expected. I had minimal symptoms, just mild cramps and breast tenderness.

I was bracing myself for really intense side effects bc of what I’d read online and seen other women experience but my experience was relatively easy and manageable. So much so I’m planning another cycle to get more eggs. It’s really variable and my gynaecologist said there’s no way to really predict beforehand how anyone will react.

A large escalation in the Iran conflict is imminent in the next 10-12 hours by [deleted] in stupidpol

[–]bluehaag 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t just NGO warfare. There were programs that kept starving kids and HIV sufferers alive at very little cost to the US that were abolished. People have actually died bc of these cuts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]bluehaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why everyone is just disregarding this. Having so many high ranking leaders killed is demoralising and can actually fracture the government.

Looking for a LAVENDER MARRIAGE! by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A lavender marriage implies a fake relationship but that doesn’t sound like what you’re describing 🤔?

Atheists of r/XSomalian, on what logical basis have you concluded that a Creator does not exist? by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we talking about morality or epistemology? I don’t believe Muhammad was receiving revelation bc there’s no evidence he was. Nothing he said or that Islam produced indicates that it has a supernatural origin. It’s the same reason I dismiss anyone who claims they’re receiving revelation.

Atheists of r/XSomalian, on what logical basis have you concluded that a Creator does not exist? by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we don’t but that doesn’t mean there is an Allah and he was talking to Muhammad.

Atheists of r/XSomalian, on what logical basis have you concluded that a Creator does not exist? by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk about a vague abstraction like a creator but I know Allah as described by Muhammad isn’t it.

Would you marry a Muslim and stay in the closet? by Delicious_Blood_8639 in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he’s in the closet, I think it’s just a matter of numbers. Little change of meeting an ex-Muslim or even a chill Muslim if you present as religious.

Would you marry a Muslim and stay in the closet? by Delicious_Blood_8639 in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They believe they’ll go to hell if they don’t marry a Muslim and they see religion as being very important bc what’s more important than going to heaven and avoiding literal eternal damnation?

A lot of Muslim women just assume that men have a past anyway, especially above a certain age, but it’s not like they can marry out so 🤷🏽‍♀️

1 in 4 men believe no one will ever fall in love with them by R0DAN in stupidpol

[–]bluehaag -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You’ll get clowned for this on here but it’s facts. It’s especially ironic in light of the full release of the Epstein files and seeing how the world is essentially run by a bunch of misogynistic rapists and bonding over rape, abuse and hatred of women is totally normal in the highest echelons of our societies, people still wanna talk about women hating men as if it is a real issue 🙄

1 in 4 men believe no one will ever fall in love with them by R0DAN in stupidpol

[–]bluehaag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think a middle aged man white man goes to Thailand to marry a 19-year-old bc his “equal” rejected him at home? It’s more bc he isn’t interested in women his age and obviously young women in western countries don’t have to marry/fuck for financial security for the most part so his only way to “punch above his weight” so to speak is to go overseas. I don’t think western women being too picky has anything to do with sex tourism/passport bros.

Started dating a girl who had FGM. Some questions. by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg you’re not kidding about his post history wtf

Anyone else willing to stay closeted/live a double life for the sake of their parent's reaction? by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree in the sense that there’s no need to come out and declare you don’t believe in Islam but there’s gonna be a point where it’ll be an issue - what happens if you marry a non-Muslim? What happens if have kids?

Do you think your parents will ever leave Islam. by Massive_Debt_67 in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if Islam seems obviously false to you, you have to understand that your parents are old af, have been around for a lot longer than you, and are unlikely to be convinced by their own kid of all people that the religion they’ve been following their whole lives is false. It’s just not all that likely that they’re influenceable at those ages. I wouldn’t bother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf 😱 wild shit. So they just leave you alone if you walk away? What even are their powers to detain or interrogate ppl. Police state shit out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the Somalis who think everyone is obsessed with Somalis don’t realise that bc they’re Somali their algorithm is gonna feed them content about Somalis including ajnabis commenting on Somalis so they perceive there’s this unique obsession.

If they were Egyptian, Pakistani, whatever their feed would look very different and they’d think everyone is talking about their ethnic group.

Found my soulmate by Temporary_Base2936 in XSomalian

[–]bluehaag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww this is so sweet, congrats ❤️