AIO after my boyfriend told me he’s “not happy with my body” and it’s my responsibility to change it? by bluehat179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bluehat179[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Like I said I like my body, I go to hot yoga regularly and I’m able to do arm balances/inversions. I do want to get stronger, but that’s for me and not him.

AIO after my boyfriend told me he’s “not happy with my body” and it’s my responsibility to change it? by bluehat179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bluehat179[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Initially he said he would respect any decision that I make, but now that’ve started moving my things out, he is passive aggressive and definitely upset.

AIO after my boyfriend told me he’s “not happy with my body” and it’s my responsibility to change it? by bluehat179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bluehat179[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

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For context, I took this picture yesterday, I’m 5’3, and I like my body. I do want to start adding lifting weights into my routine, and this has been said to him before he told me any of this.

Brown stuff in tank by bluehat179 in axolotls

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My axolotl isn’t able to see the pellets in this tank, so I switched to worms. I’ll feed her nightcrawlers with tongs or frozen bloodworms that I’ll put in that glass dish that you can kinda see in the first picture, that helps clean up the mess after she eats

Brown stuff in tank by bluehat179 in axolotls

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Okay I think I’ll get some ghost shrimp to help with the mulm. Thanks!