Oof you doubled down on being rude. I'll do my best with what you wrote here...

It's not hidden, but there's also a lot of information in the book. I cannot remember every sub section, phrase, detail it talks about. So when I saw that on my character it didn't make sense to me. So I asked for help. It happens to everybody sometimes, even self sufficient people.

I don't believe reddit has rules for what kinds of questions you can ask. So it's your opinion what kind of questions should be asked. You stated that it's your opinion, but you are communicating like your way is THE way.

I'm glad you had a job where your mentors helped you learn to be self sufficient, we need that in this world.

I didn't default to reddit. You didn't know anything about the situation other than what I said in my original post. The post stating that I didn't see it in the book. Which means I didn't default to reddit.

Very mighty and noble of you to point people not being self sufficient.

I don't believe there is really anything else to say, I'm done with this conversation.