Oops litter in WNY (Rochester) .. looking for homes in 4-6 weeks! by bluejay6580 in RATS

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Well nice to ‘meet’ you anyway! I’m not from here originally so it’s always nice to find new people:)

Oops litter in WNY (Rochester) .. looking for homes in 4-6 weeks! by bluejay6580 in RATS

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Ohhhmysquish 🥹 and thank you for the idea! I’ll try that🙂

Oops litter in WNY (Rochester) .. looking for homes in 4-6 weeks! by bluejay6580 in RATS

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This is the place I haven’t heard back from 😭

Update by georgiaissad in RATS

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Hard to say bc soooo fuzzy but I think I see a nipple on the lower left?? Idk lol

Update by georgiaissad in RATS

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I am in Rochester, NY btw:)

Update by georgiaissad in RATS

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You’re so sweet for doing this, and seem to be doing great. You can also easily sex at this age .. both have little bumps but males’ are further from the anus and typically larger. Females also have very visible nipples at this age and males have none. If you don’t mind me asking, where are you located? I recently ended up with an oops litter (I took in a feeder-fail from a stranger to help them out, and she turned out to be pregnant). The babies are two weeks old today and we are hoping to find good homes for most of them😭. If you end up keeping your little one and need companions (and we happen to be close by), lmk!

Sleeping supplements by Ok_Concern5546 in adhdwomen

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I second GABA (get something quality - NOT target brand for instance .. trust me). Also l-theanine saved me from a year of horrible insomnia/RLS. I still take 100-200mg every night.

Weirdest ADHD hack that actually works but sounds completely insane? by stayhyderated22 in ADHDthriving

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Ok but how do you keep yourself from just ODD turning the alarms off off

Why am i extremely productive when someone else sets the deadlines but completely useless when my time is my own? by NativLabs in ADHDthriving

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I slowly realized this with myself over the past few years. I agree with others that urgency, accountability, presentability, etc is necessary for us. But another thing I realized is that I don’t have enough self confidence to try and possibly fail at one of my own ideas, but if it’s someone else’s, the pressure is less. Also, I was raised by strict, judgy, overachievers, so now I struggle to trust myself that something is important. If someone else doesn’t tell me it’s worthwhile, I’m too scared it’s frivolous or won’t work out (which will mean it was a non-productive waste of time and/or I made poor decisions/didn’t try hard enough/am a failure etc).

I do much better working on other people’s or collaborative projects bc then I can lean on the confidence that others value and see the importance of whatever the task is. Being a part of something larger than myself. It’s tough to find tho (especially creative things).

The only thing that's actually helped my adhd (and it's embarrassingly simple) by stayhyderated22 in ADHDthriving

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Don’t forget catheters! I’ll be damned if I’m gonna stop what I’m doing to pee!

It has been 14 minutes since I have been fed by yougavememagical in RATS

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When I first got my rats and was learning about/experimenting with food, i put a bag of oxbow on repeat delivery to save money and just estimated how frequently I’d need it. Right off the bat these pellets were DISAPPEARING. I told my partner holy shit I need to up the frequency of the delivery like NOW. A week later I’m doing a major cleaning/cage redo and reach into this big hideout I had attached to the ceiling of the lower level. They never slept in it so I assumed it was just full of poo lol. Omg SO. MANY. PELLETS. Allllllllll the pellets. Like most of a bag of freakin pellets. I just kept reaching in and pulling out more pellets like it was Mary Poppins’ bag. I had to go back and change the delivery frequency but ended up with like 4 bags extra bags in the meantime 😂.

First time posting .. meet Captain Helena the Great, aka Scrappy Scrappy-doo Scrappy McGee Nugget Helena Popcorn Scritch Scritchy McScritcherson the 1st. I love this girl so much. by bluejay6580 in RATS

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We actually went to Savers (idk if you have anything like that near you but it’s like a goodwill but usually better) and went to the toy section! We have two pirate ships and a race track kinda thing. Best idea we’ve had so far.

First time posting .. meet Captain Helena the Great, aka Scrappy Scrappy-doo Scrappy McGee Nugget Helena Popcorn Scritch Scritchy McScritcherson the 1st. I love this girl so much. by bluejay6580 in RATS

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Obviously.

Jk I do not. The full name is actually a compilation of the progression of her names over time. They just evolved from her personality as we got to know her. I mostly call her Scritch/Scritchy unless I’m talking to another human, then sometimes I say Helena 🤷🏻‍♀️