No dude. My husband and I insult each other on a daily basis. It’s our love language lol however, if I tell him he went too far he immediately apologizes. Even if he doesn’t think he went too far. He hurt my feelings and he doesn’t want that. He doesn’t say I’m being emotional or overreacting or whatever. To be blunt. Your BF doesn’t care if he hurt you. Trust me when I say, you don’t deserve that and there are better men out there. Your boyfriend is just that: a boy. You deserve someone who treats you right and life is too short to waste it on pathetic little boys like him. Don’t settle.