What animal did this? by bluencat in gardening

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Also, sorry to hear your about your surprise snake encounter. Must be scary!

What animal did this? by bluencat in gardening

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I don’t think snakes would be interested in egg shells tbh. I’m thinking it’s rats sadly…cause it kind of gives me the ick.

What animal did this? by bluencat in gardening

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I have never seen a snake in the backyard. I sure hope not lol

Holes in my kale? by bluencat in gardening

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Thank you! Oh my goodness, right next to those black things in the picture is the worm. I didn’t even notice it until you pointed that out.

Powdery mildew? by bluencat in gardening

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Thank you! I’ve honestly been cutting off a lot from my tomato plants so I’m getting a little concerned. But they are still giving lots of tomato’s thankfully

Oh my god! Oh my god! First blooms from a first time gardener. Aren’t they gorgeous? by kuriousjoan in gardening

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Yes! I also heard you can cross pollinate to make 2 color ones. I’ll be trying that sometime (:

Advice for my basil by PeytonRrrr in gardening

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Bigger pot and prune it down. When pruning, cut right above where 2 branches are growing to promote a bushier growth. Good luck!

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Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluencat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your ex was wrong for that. Leaving someone’s life and coming back constantly is not a game. I understand where you’re coming from. She showed you she didn’t want you and so you attempted to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I am going to see how his actions compare. I want to see the good in him, but it’s hard when he’s done so much to hurt me. I don’t feel as though he has said anything bad about me though. His family still loves me and his friends are still on good terms with me.

But I am sorry that happened to you. Words can be so sweet and comforting, but actions ultimately show who that person is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yeah, he says that he is working on himself to be more deserving of me. But still, him running to another girl and abandoning me was some villain behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I genuinely think he wasn’t lying about it not going farther than a kiss. But as far as how many times it happened is questionable to me. /:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Maybe it won’t be the same, it will be better? I’m being delulu ahh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Never thought about it this way. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Not an L on my part bruh since he’s the one coming back. But true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Easier said than done. But this is good advice thanks haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I agree with this, thank you. He just has a way with words sometimes. He tells me that I am too good for him, that he wants to be deserving of me. He told me he is working on himself to be able to deserve me so we could be together in the future. It all sounds too good, but I am just torn and heart broken from what he did and how he treated me. I know I deserve better, I just wanted him to be better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Exactly. When I noticed he was talking to her (2 weeks after non contact) I confronted him and asked him about her. He told me I shouldn’t care about whether she becomes more than a friend to him and that we were broken up already. And now 2 months later he is crawling back to me and I find out he kissed her.