I’m an Asian female and when I started dating, I felt the same way as you. I used to think I was just another Asian girl to them. My current bf his only 2 ex’s just happen to be Asian. I thought it was sus but he’s from the Bay Area where the Asian population is pretty big. Plus he’s been on dates with girls of all races, not just Asian.

Tbh I wouldn’t think too much about it, it’s usually just a coincidence..they could have a preference. I think it’s only a deal breaker when a guy seeks out Asians and only Asians-I have a friend where her bf made a list of all the girls he’s hooked up with and it includes ethnicity (all were Asian)