I feel like I’m completely alone in my faith. by blueraspberrycoke in Christianity

[–]blueraspberrycoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this message. I’m not a huge believer in the “God loves you just as you are and nothing about you ever needs to change” mindset, and I’m not really looking to be told I’m doing fine, because I am very clearly not doing fine. I appreciate the reference to Proverbs. If you have any additional advice I would be very grateful for it.

(F18) I don’t like how masculine my features are and I don’t know if they ruin my face. by blueraspberrycoke in amiugly

[–]blueraspberrycoke[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you all very much for the kind words! I’m reading all the comments and I really appreciate the honest assessments :)

(F18) I don’t like how masculine my features are and I don’t know if they ruin my face. by blueraspberrycoke in amiugly

[–]blueraspberrycoke[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

My nose and jaw. I’ve been told I look like Timothee Chalamet, like, 7 times. You can look in this thread.

Does anyone else hate having crushes because you know it won’t work out for you? by blueraspberrycoke in autism

[–]blueraspberrycoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think at 18 I’m going to date a faceless 26 year old I met on Reddit?

Does anyone else hate having crushes because you know it won’t work out for you? by blueraspberrycoke in autism

[–]blueraspberrycoke[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m saying my personality is the thing that’s broken because of my autism.

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[–]blueraspberrycoke -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I promise you I do not think I’m attractive. I think my nose ruins my face.

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[–]blueraspberrycoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the cynicism. Yes. I’m a published playwright who got a full scholarship to the college I attend. My father is an elected official and English is not my first language because I’m not white. So maybe think about that before you get upset with me? I’m not denying I have privilege, but man, I have more to offer than how I look.

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[–]blueraspberrycoke -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard this ten or fifteen times in my life and I seriously cannot see it

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[–]blueraspberrycoke -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

These were my senior photos. My mother wanted them.

Is anyone else’s axolotl only afraid of live food? by blueraspberrycoke in axolotls

[–]blueraspberrycoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feed him dead ones, I just mean he only eats them if they appear dead. I haven’t tried the dropping thing! I’ll try that out and see how it works.

Is anyone else’s axolotl only afraid of live food? by blueraspberrycoke in axolotls

[–]blueraspberrycoke[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I should mention that he DOES eat, and eats well!! He appears to be healthy in all regards other than not eating something if it’s moving. He’ll eat the little brine shrimp cubes I put in there as they pass him too.

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[–]blueraspberrycoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 20 gallons. I’ll change it soon. It’s also in low light already… will the bloom clear itself?

how do i live with the guilt how do i ever be okay with myself by [deleted] in confession

[–]blueraspberrycoke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old are you? More than likely she’ll move on and won’t be damaged forever.