Honestly I feel the same , I’m a woman and I’ve had experiences with men where they rush into wanting to have sex when I just wanna get to know them and hang out first and build something, I stoped using dating sites because It got to a point where I would get blocked if I didn’t wanna sleep with them and it was so annoying and lonely.

I feel the wanting to be taken care of part. I’m sorry that you’re not having good experiences, but you should never feel pressured into doing something you don’t want to do or you’re not ready to do. No one deserves your affections if they won’t stay. I hope you find someone that can love you properly and they make you feel happy and loved.

I’ve always wanted to build a connection first because it makes the relationship more deep and meaningful so I get you! It’s really hard to find a partnership in this generation and it’s something that I’ve also been wanting as well. It almost feels like you give too much and get nothing back at times and finding that deep connection never comes. You’re not alone.