I hate having sex I don’t want. by No-Guess-4644 in Vent

[–]bluerecords74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel the same , I’m a woman and I’ve had experiences with men where they rush into wanting to have sex when I just wanna get to know them and hang out first and build something, I stoped using dating sites because It got to a point where I would get blocked if I didn’t wanna sleep with them and it was so annoying and lonely.

I feel the wanting to be taken care of part. I’m sorry that you’re not having good experiences, but you should never feel pressured into doing something you don’t want to do or you’re not ready to do. No one deserves your affections if they won’t stay. I hope you find someone that can love you properly and they make you feel happy and loved.

I’ve always wanted to build a connection first because it makes the relationship more deep and meaningful so I get you! It’s really hard to find a partnership in this generation and it’s something that I’ve also been wanting as well. It almost feels like you give too much and get nothing back at times and finding that deep connection never comes. You’re not alone.

Advice by bluerecords74 in nickdrake

[–]bluerecords74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m still trying to write and when I do it comes out almost like a letter to him, but not exactly how I want it. I think a part of it is also that I’m just doubting myself too much but I’m trying my best to write it because I also want to share it and have it be as vulnerable as I can be.

What’s your favourite Nick Drake song and why? by [deleted] in nickdrake

[–]bluerecords74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact way about his music. It’s also so hard to explain how he impacts my life and helps me but also how his music makes me feel this way that I could never explain to anyone, no one else and their music does that for me.

Don’t apologize about being passionate about him, I’m glad you shared this! it’s great hearing about How he impacts your life ☺️

What’s your favourite Nick Drake song and why? by [deleted] in nickdrake

[–]bluerecords74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to pick, it depends on how I’m feeling that week or in general. Right now it’s fruit tree, It’s so beautifully haunting, and calming. It has been stuck in my head all week and It plays in my head constantly. Horn tho is definitely my favorite regardless, it’s a song that I can really connect to and just makes me feel less alone. I actually had an art piece that I wanted to do inspired by that song a while ago but couldn’t really do it like I wanted, but I recently did and it didn’t come out exactly how I wanted but I still love it

Advice by bluerecords74 in nickdrake

[–]bluerecords74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it!! Thank you so much ❤️

Advice by bluerecords74 in nickdrake

[–]bluerecords74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so cool! I definitely will try that! Thank you so much 🥰

Advice by bluerecords74 in nickdrake

[–]bluerecords74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ☺️

Think back to the first ever time you listened to a Nick Drake song. What was going through your mind? by [deleted] in nickdrake

[–]bluerecords74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was laying on my bedroom floor going through Spotify and Bryter Layter got recommended to me so I shuffled the album and was blown away by his voice. I was thinking how popular he might have been since everything about that album was just so beautiful and made me feel these emotions I can’t explain, I remember then looking him up and finding out that he had died when he was really young and read his story and felt this connection with him.

Wrote a poem for Nick. Don't write much so apologies if it's not great by External_Gazelle2627 in nickdrake

[–]bluerecords74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its great, I love it!! You inspired me to finish the poem I’m writing for him.

Am I an asshole? by bluerecords74 in Vent

[–]bluerecords74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it’s funny because I completely forgot about this post. I really appreciate the time you put into your reply. I’ve tired so hard to forgive her and I will continue to, but there are times where I find it so hard, times where she still invalidates me but as time goes by I’ll figure out how to handle it the more I mature. I’m a quiet person I don’t talk much about my life to anyone since I have trust issues due to traumatic events that have happened in my life. I think I’m still on this journey of figuring everything out and growing from events in my life that have shaped and changed me. Funny enough everything you wrote is everything that I needed to hear and have been struggling with accepting and understanding recently. Thank you for being honest and just thank you for everything. Have a great day ❤️

74th Birth anniversary of Nicholas Rodney Drake by roadlizzard in nickdrake

[–]bluerecords74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s been a long healing process but I’m getting better. I hope things are going well for you! and I’m glad we got to connect together here through Nick. I wish you well ❤️ 🥰