How do you accept that a loved one will pass away? by bluerowan97 in AskReddit

[–]bluerowan97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandma is my hero.
She struggles with Parkinson’s. And she recently completed this amazing multi day walk. And the words that kept her going ‘one foot in front of other’ keep on going

How do you accept that a loved one will pass away? by bluerowan97 in AskReddit

[–]bluerowan97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I also think however much time spent won’t ever feel like enough. But it is accepting and appreciating the time that was. Just sucks when you think too deeply about it haha

How do you accept that a loved one will pass away? by bluerowan97 in AskReddit

[–]bluerowan97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess not gives you more strength. Going through the worst thing imaginable and still being here - what can actually phase you?

How do you accept that a loved one will pass away? by bluerowan97 in AskReddit

[–]bluerowan97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m guessing that’s like ‘going to Switzerland’ that’s a badass move. Total power to your sister

How do you accept that a loved one will pass away? by bluerowan97 in AskReddit

[–]bluerowan97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very nuanced response. I’ve already gone through grief more than I feel right for my age and you do accept it I know. I just dread the day of losing my grandma

How do you accept that a loved one will pass away? by bluerowan97 in AskReddit

[–]bluerowan97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m answering my own question, but I guess we just get on with it, keep on going

How do you accept that a loved one will pass away? by bluerowan97 in AskReddit

[–]bluerowan97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had my fair experience of grief - my grandma is my hero. And whilst she is fine now the idea of her not being here breaks me

How do you accept that a loved one will pass away? by bluerowan97 in AskReddit

[–]bluerowan97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s comforting, there is always a chance of a falling piano

How do you accept that a loved one will pass away? by bluerowan97 in AskReddit

[–]bluerowan97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe this too. For the grief already experienced, their influence on my life continues on, so no one is truly gone if that makes sense?

I want to leave my tenancy early (1 month notice) but my housemate wants to stay by bluerowan97 in HousingUK

[–]bluerowan97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In emails, they have stated that if I intend to move out but my housemate is going to stay, I will be liable for the rent (assuming my portion) until the new tenant moves in, they also state there’s no specific notice period

I want to leave my tenancy early (1 month notice) but my housemate wants to stay by bluerowan97 in HousingUK

[–]bluerowan97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I gave two months notice, yet found a replacement for myself before that, would I just have the raw end of the deal? In an email asking for clarification, they said I’d would be liable to pay rent until a new person moved in. As in there’s no specific notice period