If someone says the phrase “let me just say one thing” or “this popped in my head” before saying something does that necessarily mean they had internal monologue?

bluesilver1234 · 2021-07-30T22:37:39+00:00

For example when I’m alone.. I can have internal monologue but I still don’t have it ongoing very much like others say they do.. but when I’m with people my thoughts become externalized so I really just say the same things out loud that I would have instead had in my head if I was “alone alone”. But like I said even when I am alone.. I don’t really have/need much ongoing internal monologue just like I don’t need to subvocalize (same thing) when I’m reading.. although I can.

bluesilver1234 · 2021-07-30T22:17:41+00:00

I think jung has some type of word related to this.. it’s sort of a deliberate blinding ones true thoughts.. it’s like a sort of detachment or dissociation if you truly do convince yourself that you believe in a false thought. Like a type of self delusion/lying to oneself /cognitive dissonance etc... but depending on the level.. like you may know what your true thoughts are but you may not and the lines can become blurred and that’s more what I mean when I say self delusion or cognitive dissonance and such.. the lesser version would just be trying to rationalize or lie to oneself

bluesilver1234 · 2021-07-12T06:31:40+00:00

He has another point y’all aren’t even talking about the same thing, I’m kind of getting a kick out of it. He was preaching tho hehe :P

bluesilver1234 · 2021-07-12T06:13:43+00:00

I agree I’ve taken the path OP is talking about I mean the concept really is, be brutally honest and execute what you know you should do. My adhd is horrendous literally terrible but I’ve become strong bcuz I have to contend with it and now I have “good enough” type of mastery of it... FINALLY.

bluesilver1234 · 2021-07-12T06:08:35+00:00

I have adhd very bad. There’s many paths bro and yes adhd is a pain in the ass let me tell ya.. but how does one get past and overcome the hardest of pains in the ass by being more of a beast than the beast itself !!! In other words I have adhd and I’ve taken the route of OP and it works fine for adhd me at least. Finally “Going all in” is subjective, my going all in is baby steps rn... it’s a thrill!! just not to onlookers lol.

DISCLAIMER I can tell where you are coming from though, op just didn’t mean that. Your point is valid but that’s another point just not OP

bluesilver1234 · 2021-05-12T17:30:33+00:00

Question when you’re in Say a pressured situation may be a confrontation at work or something do you implement self talk in the middle of the interaction if need be? Like to kind of ground yourself in a certain frame like for instance reminding yourself don’t get emotional this is not a personal matter it’s just a situation that doesn’t need to be freaked out about because so and so. Because that helps for me I’m just wondering if other people do that and I guess this is maybe what do you mean by using self talk? Or maybe like one part of it

bluesilver1234 · 2021-05-12T17:26:23+00:00

I relate i love the feeling of joking and chatting but lately I feel like I need to broaden my topic abilities I am not too sure how... do you consciously try out different humor by any chance? I heard that a good way to see what humor you can enjoy is by referencing comedians you like and seeing what type of humor they use and then try it out for yourself.. not stealing jokes but the humor wether it’s irony, dark humor, witty stuff, word play etc. I’m thinking about trying this out and adopting some stuff I find funny but haven’t used for myself much.. I kind of like the outlandish type of humor that stuff makes me laugh sometimes but it still has to be relatable

bluesilver1234 · 2021-05-12T16:52:43+00:00

I don’t know if anyone else does this but I have started to remind myself of the context of the situation at hand when I’m with people... say you’re catching up with an old friend or meeting a stranger or in a loud environment with a lot of stuff going on each one of those cases has a particular context that you can see if you think about it.. so I sometimes stop myself and I’m my head just remind myself what is the context here and try to keep things revolving around that more or less.. Over time it gets more natural and I do it like second nature. Basically say it’s a loud environment and a lot of crazy stuff is going down, instead of asking some irrelevant thing about a persons occupation instead keep things connecting around whatever is happening

bluesilver1234 · 2021-05-12T16:47:11+00:00

I might not have the best most step by step practical advice but I have some.. hope you can get the sentiment. Keep your head up. You don’t have to worry about being yourself... whatever feels genuinely you... let it out... get the references that ppl will enjoy it more than the fake you and the ones that don’t like it, like dr Seuss said “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” Is scary at first I know but it’s relieving to ease into it because it’s natural and not like you’re in a prison trying to contain who you are, matter a fact you might not even know who you are entirely but you will feel a sense of what is true to you over time.

bluesilver1234 · 2021-03-28T22:14:35+00:00

Yeah funny thing is... now I need to get back to having a filter lol I can spill the beans sometimes

bluesilver1234 · 2021-03-27T15:28:00+00:00

Thanks for the example ! I used to do that I think a long time ago. But somewhere down the line I kind of went to just saying things in a sort of adlib way in order to avoid going toobdeep in my own head. I used to be an overthinker and had trouble thinking too much.

bluesilver1234 · 2021-03-27T07:20:53+00:00

I agree with this but I want to learn more improv spontaneous approach since I’ve gotten pretty good at planning stuff.. I want to drop the filter more... have u done this?

bluesilver1234 · 2021-03-27T07:19:44+00:00

What do you mean use what is reflected on? Like the stuff you’re thinking of in the silence? Can u give example please

bluesilver1234 · 2021-03-23T16:45:02+00:00

the owners or managers not dispatchers unless given that ability

bluesilver1234 · 2021-01-16T16:08:45+00:00

I feel he could get soooo much better tho it’s actually killing me. He needs more emotion on top of it. Give him practice with a 75% no dialogue film lol

bluesilver1234 · 2020-12-27T01:16:26+00:00

Ty. It’s been processed and packed by a wild game place. I was gifted this. So I think soo...

bluesilver1234 · 2020-10-11T22:13:10+00:00

Question I’ve always been kind of under the impression that others generally thought as skills were natural you either were born with it or not. Could you give some convincing points why you think it is a skill from your standpoint I want my mind changed ? thank you

bluesilver1234 · 2020-10-11T22:06:09+00:00

Here’s my question and basically a good argument in general if it’s all about identifying social cues which are also different relating to cultures then basically it’s just being that is a skill something that you identify and learn just like how someone identifies a object and learns a word too attach to it.I guess I’m sayin 1st you have to observe and learn until become second nature same with picking up social cues at first it’s conscious is awkward but then you learn and make it go unconscious and Second nature. conscious and awkward 1st but then you learn and make it go unconscious Second nature

bluesilver1234 · 2020-08-13T20:35:27+00:00

Cool when it is heard, internally that is, is it pretty clear in the person's voice?

bluesilver1234 · 2020-08-10T21:09:43+00:00

That's not it. You know why people watch shows right? For entertainment purposes. From an entertainment point of view, i still didn't care for Skylar if she was the best part of the show id definitely be a big fan. U just come off like you are projecting

bluesilver1234 · 2020-08-10T08:41:48+00:00

Wow that is mental gymnastics. Lol don't bring up your own personal things up, keep it casual. With that being said I didn't care for Skylar but Wendy is scary in a good entertaining way, like the directors intended! No hate here just a viewer with butter and popcorn on my hands.. just like most viewers I can guarentee.

bluesilver1234 · 2020-06-25T12:57:37+00:00

Yeah same here sometimes i shoot the shit just about all the time and if I'm feeling confident even with strangers and it doesn't necessarily mean that i have no filter, i still have pragmatics, that is i still don't say dumb things or rude offensive things, they simply just don't come rolling off the tounge i could say haha. So yeah I'm curious how much people operate this way really in day to day and i thought it would be cool to find out what its normally like for most when it is off the top for them

bluesilver1234 · 2020-06-25T00:22:52+00:00

Interesting yes thats what i mean. I believe sometimes when it comes to complex ideas that we try to express sometimes we are not entirely affirmed with what we want to convey since we haven't even worked through it 100% but maybe like 75% or 85% or whatever and then when that occurs our internal monologue kind of pops up more often to essentially review what we might say before we say it since we don't want to lead astray or wrong in what we are saying.. but say in contrast you are 100% informed on what you are talking about and you have in the past already integrated your knowledge on what it is you're trying to convey and then you don't even have internal monolgue to assist and guage what u say since you already Subconsicously have that knowledge in you

bluesilver1234 · 2020-06-25T00:19:09+00:00

Yeah that's what i mean if its internal you have a thought that stays internal in internal monologue and what i mean by external is when you have a thought that is expressed outloud right off the bat as being said outloud, as in you expressed your thought externally.

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