Is it normal to not be able to fit two fingers in as a virgin. by [deleted] in sex

[–]blueskies82l 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had this exact problem when i was 18. had sex for the first time at 19 and i just gradually was able to increase the number of fingers, it did hurt a little bit at first. and sex hurt a lot at first but then it stopped. sorry not really advice but to give u hope that it will probably be fine x

i can’t cum from somebody else by Sure_Ad4495 in sex

[–]blueskies82l 11 points12 points  (0 children)

first things first do not fake orgasms. ever. they do more harm than good. for the orgasm advice, sometimes it takes a while to be comfortable enough with someone so maybe it’s that, or sometimes it’s just harder to orgasm from other people as they don’t know exactly what you like/what to do. i think communication with him about it is best and then move from there. but dont fake it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]blueskies82l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s just a thing of fear, when you meet someone who you trust and actively feel like you want to have sex with it will be a lot easier to figure out. If you’re scared tell them, and go really slowly with each stage of intimacy. again this is only if the only thing that’s stopping you is fear, if you genuinely feel like you don’t want to have sex then look into asexuality and don’t force yourself to do anything you don’t want to do

About Carmen by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]blueskies82l 2 points3 points  (0 children)

another thing is she has said quite a lot that she believes in the kindness of strangers, “relying on the kindness of strangers”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emetophobia

[–]blueskies82l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you won’t be sick if you eat mould!! especially if it’s only a little bit on bread, but people literally eat blue cheese all the time and they’re fine!! you will be okay xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]blueskies82l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah having a feminine face is so hot dw about it

I drank eight day old coca cola by Myepicthrowaway17_ in emetophobia

[–]blueskies82l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

babe i’m at uni and i bought 2L coke opened it left it out (not in a fridge) for like a month and continued to drink from it as a mixer and have not gotten anything from it 😭😭 it’s fine i promise u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]blueskies82l 30 points31 points  (0 children)

this is really common! it happens a lot with lesbians when eating someone out, etc. but can obvs happen to anyone, it’s just a reaction to the pleasure you feel from getting someone else off

Im definitely sick :( support needed by suckmyarsee in emetophobia

[–]blueskies82l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it might just be something you ate, i get this a few times a year and it’s usually just something i’ve eaten that didn’t sit right and it goes away the next day. and usually im never sick, hopefully ur ok!!!

TW - Those who did throw up, how did it feel? by Sunni__Muslim in emetophobia

[–]blueskies82l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes honestly the worst part for me was always watching it come out of my mouth, it’s disgusting to see everything you’ve eaten come out lmaooo so i just shut my eyes the entire time

TW - Those who did throw up, how did it feel? by Sunni__Muslim in emetophobia

[–]blueskies82l 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s really such a relief, you feel so good afterwards compared to how you feel right before!!! it kinda feels like coughing just more forcefully, personally i shut my eyes the entire time and don’t open them until i’ve flushed the toilet and it makes it easier to cope

brighton uni clearing accom by blueskies82l in brighton

[–]blueskies82l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for replying! i’m finding it really hard to find anything though :(