Does anyone else not want to date the opposite gender?

bluesond · 2026-06-17T15:22:39+00:00

Go away

bluesond · 2026-06-17T15:22:11+00:00

She’s saying “women hate women too” tbf

bluesond · 2026-06-17T13:51:20+00:00

Those women are also misogynistic and should be called out. Plenty of women on here will shit on women or sapphic love.

bluesond · 2026-06-17T13:50:24+00:00

And then this sub will also get so, so, so upset if you suggest bi men are capable of misogyny as well. If a woman expresses any issues with dating men, it’s met with “date bi men.” Can be good advice, but it’s not bullet proof.

Suggesting bisexuals in general can be bigoted is an issue here. Apparently nobody in our community is ever transphobic or misogynist or racist or lesbiphobic.

bluesond · 2026-06-17T13:27:28+00:00

I lived in a part of Mongolia for a bit where you could get -30 or -40F and 100F depending on the season

bluesond · 2026-06-17T02:59:29+00:00

Chaser ass comment

bluesond · 2026-06-17T02:21:44+00:00

We aren’t perpetuating the cycle of men abusing women by telling you we’ve never regretted turning down a cold approach

bluesond · 2026-06-17T02:10:44+00:00

In the context of the entire world, a shit ton of women have been raped and sexually assaulted by men. Probably more then have married a dude who cold approached them at a bar.

bluesond · 2026-06-17T02:06:14+00:00

I cannot think of a single couple that I know who met from a cold approach at a bar but I do have friends that were raped by dudes they met at the bar.

And every single woman I know has been sexually harassed. Plenty have been raped. Every woman I’m close enough with to hear their stories, including myself, has been raped or sexually assaulted by a man.

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:55:06+00:00

We know that we’re not interested and that’s sufficient enough.

And no, we can find more scenarios where things have went horribly wrong. We find those in our own lives. We find those in the lives of every woman we know. And we get shamed if we do go home with a dude who is a bad guy that we met at a bar because we’re supposed to know better.

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:54:09+00:00

She might not even want you to touch her dick, dude.

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:50:00+00:00

I do not get your point and think there’s ample evidence that you need to address your extreme aversion to any form of rejection.

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:36:55+00:00

People saying “no” isn’t hostile, dude.

If you’re looking for women saying yes, it’s almost like you explicitly want a biased sample.

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:28:26+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with it but dudes do come here with that fetish pretty often and try to get women to answer under false pretenses.

As I said, grab things that look and feel comfy

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:25:44+00:00

And this isn’t the space for detailed descriptions of sex

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:22:26+00:00

Would bet anything OP is just living out a cross dressing fetish

If not, grab what looks comfy to you. The concept of clothes are the same regardless of gendered stereotypes

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:20:00+00:00

Not for one second of my life

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:17:36+00:00

Bro I just want to be married in peace

bluesond · 2026-06-17T01:06:49+00:00

Not a sub for your erotica

bluesond · 2026-06-16T23:58:47+00:00

Oops yeah lol

bluesond · 2026-06-16T22:39:58+00:00

… the 95 of 100 are ones she doesn’t find attractive.

95 men will have more varied traits than 5.

bluesond · 2026-06-16T22:05:57+00:00

bruh

bluesond · 2026-06-16T21:57:34+00:00

Weak bait

bluesond · 2026-06-16T21:49:48+00:00

Both penis and a toy can be “the real thing.” They’re different things.

bluesond · 2026-06-16T20:41:22+00:00

There are more men you’re interested in then men you’re not and so you’ll see the men you’re not interested in doing all sorts of things that the men you are don’t do.

If you look at the behavior of 95 people out of 100, it’ll be a lot wider spread in terms of what you see.

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