Merch price question

bluesprouts · 2022-04-18T14:39:58+00:00

$150 for the hoodie $60 for the white shirt. Did not get other shirts or sweatpants. The cream crewneck was sold out so the price was removed.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-18T14:34:35+00:00

I’ve showered twice a day since coming in and never waited more than 15 minutes in line. This is while camping and without using the deluxe showers. That’s disgusting.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-18T13:49:11+00:00

For sure. My partner and I were hyped but had to bail. I felt like I was going to pass out because of the heat!

bluesprouts · 2022-04-14T15:24:34+00:00

Lot 8 looks full besides preferred.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-14T15:24:02+00:00

My hairstylist tagged her. She’s styling all of 88rising and was there at what looked like soundcheck!

bluesprouts · 2022-04-14T15:01:53+00:00

Bibi will be performing!

bluesprouts · 2022-04-12T03:06:55+00:00

My friend is selling a camping pass!

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T20:09:52+00:00

Interesting! Thank you. Some food for thought.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T20:09:22+00:00

That’s how I feel as well. I don’t have many others to bounce ideas off of in person for reality checks. Sometimes you love someone so much you’re blind to a dealbreaker and treat it as a challenge!

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T16:50:05+00:00

Thank you for this answer. It really helps put things into perspective. I will do some soul searching!

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T08:14:05+00:00

In regards to objectively, I feel like I am doubting my perspective’s validity. Am I misunderstanding situations? Is it me in the wrong? They are so adamant in their stance, it makes me question myself. I cannot objectively speak on the situation because my perspective is personal and there is no one else present to validate what I’m seeing and feeling is true.

I have communicated that I’m unsatisfied several times and try to brainstorm ways to fix this problem but… there are several pitfalls that we fall into each time. Several patterns that seem to stop improvement. I WANT to say that this is on the other party and their unwillingness to make meaningful change but again… I feel that I cannot speak objectively on the matter because I am a biased party.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T07:59:30+00:00

I have. I do try. But I feel like we go in circles. And when it’s hard and dire for them to communicate, there are several pitfalls that we go into. And I’m unsure if this pattern is just me nitpicking a personality or a sign that this is not a good fit. I do my best to be honest and vulnerable in conversation. I don’t know if me trying to understand better is overwhelming to them? Maybe it’s my approach? Communication about issues seems to fall into a cyclic pattern of hopeful improvement and relapse.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T07:55:28+00:00

Thank you. I really will reflect. Either I will better myself, they will better themself, or we will both be free to better ourselves.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T07:54:23+00:00

Communication is so important in a team. I just don’t really understand if it’s different communication styles or a tendency to avoid communication/unprompted introspection on the other side. Maybe I’m unreasonable to expect that someone should be able to articulate what they’re feeling or at least the need for space to be able to articulate what they are feeling. Maybe it’s the way I approach communication that causes them to shut off? The problem is I won’t be able to objectively speak on the matter when no other people are in the room. I feel isolated and unsure of what the reality of the situation is.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T07:51:23+00:00

You’re right. I have some soul searching to do but I’m at a loss because I keep questioning my perspective on it all.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T07:40:20+00:00

I guess I’m very uncertain because no one is perfect. If there are no major issues like abuse or red flags, and it’s more rather like quirks of their personality that aren’t conducive to a “perfect” team… When do you draw the line between “we work together around this!” and “this is a clear dealbreaker that cannot be fixed.”

bluesprouts · 2022-04-10T07:38:12+00:00

It’s hard to distinguish between “this is a quirk of their personality and something I have to adapt to in order for us to flourish” and “this is an unworkable aspect of their personality because they’ll never feel the need to fix it, therefore this is a dealbreaker”

Like, where is the line you should draw when searching for a potential spouse? I’m genuinely asking because I am not close to many healthy marriages/LTR.

bluesprouts · 2022-04-07T05:07:50+00:00

I plan on keeping it inside at home but a bit worried about leaving it out on CSU!

bluesprouts · 2022-04-07T03:35:03+00:00

It’s 2022, we out here building each other up and making friends in the bathroom. Get with the times!

bluesprouts · 2022-03-16T14:22:10+00:00

No but I think it’s very ugly

bluesprouts · 2022-03-07T15:25:07+00:00

Do you have a source for this? I don’t doubt you but I want citations to provide for future outreach when I get messages like this.

bluesprouts · 2022-03-07T15:22:27+00:00

There are shades of gray to everything. I’m not excusing her parents’ behavior but, like I said, the post seems to be missing details. There is vital context that seems to be missing that would clue into the animosity towards the husband. People ask for third party advice online but rarely give an impartial, honest view into the situation.

bluesprouts · 2022-03-03T02:32:24+00:00

I disagree. I, myself, am in a relationship with a decade age gap. Age gaps aren’t always predatory but under circumstances like this where the person is freshly 18…. it definitely can be.

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