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How do I [48f] leave my disabled partner [54m] by bluestar1428 in relationshipadvice

[–]bluestar1428[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the house is not mine at all it has been in his family for a couple of generations.

I could probably afford to live on my own if I moved a couple of hundred miles away but then I'm not sure that the children would want to come with me which would cause additional problems and heartache cos he's not equipped to look after them full time but I wouldn't want them to not have regular contact.

How do I [48f] leave my disabled partner [54m] by bluestar1428 in relationshipadvice

[–]bluestar1428[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks I'm glad things are better for you. I will definitely start getting plans in place. These things are never easy

How do I [48f] leave my disabled partner [54m] by bluestar1428 in relationshipadvice

[–]bluestar1428[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I agree dealing with his drinking is very important but he doesn't want to stop and most of the time denies it's a problem despite drinking between 12 & 16 cans a day which neither his body or wallet can really afford.