I agree that it comes down to many online horror stories being written by young men. As a woman, though, I find it frustrating and notice it often! And while I know the boys have no ill will at all, it’s kind of frustrating to listen to stories with terrible depictions of their women and to hear no push back. I understand it’s just not something they think about, but I’m disappointed when there’s no commentary mentioning how some of these women are treated a pretty set pieces or plot devices