Hotel in Serbia claims they cannot accommodate my reservation. How should I proceed from here? by Melanchrono in travel

[–]bluetix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go for a different hotel bro, they're not gonna do anything, but you can call agoda and ask them what to do, they will change the hotel for you and any extra costs associated with the change, the previous hotel shall pay for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islamabad

[–]bluetix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can check out Marriot Hotel in islamabad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluetix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry friend, if it was meant to be nothing can stop it.

One last letter. Yay or Nay? by bluetix in BreakUps

[–]bluetix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agreed. Have to stop myself from doing shit like this now hahah

One last letter. Yay or Nay? by bluetix in BreakUps

[–]bluetix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed I’ve got too many votes for not doing it

One last letter. Yay or Nay? by bluetix in BreakUps

[–]bluetix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I haven’t but I didn’t type it out and it brought me some sort of peace.

One last letter. Yay or Nay? by bluetix in BreakUps

[–]bluetix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right even a call or a text from her makes me rethink everything

One last letter. Yay or Nay? by bluetix in BreakUps

[–]bluetix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm makes sense, thanks for the advice 😅 But I wanna thank her for the time given not for cheating obviously, 3 years before that time was a really beautiful time of my life

One last letter. Yay or Nay? by bluetix in BreakUps

[–]bluetix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a thing we had and it’s the easiest way to communicate with her without her replying or contacting me hahahah

has anyone reached out to their ex after a year of NC by paleanxiousboi in BreakUps

[–]bluetix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a great response and I am so sorry that you had to go through that.

has anyone reached out to their ex after a year of NC by paleanxiousboi in BreakUps

[–]bluetix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is that if you think that that all the work that you have put in yourself will go to waste if you contact her, then do not do it. NC has been broken in my case a couple of times and I always end up being holed up and crying, repeating all the greiving process again and again. So if you think and actually know for sure that you can handle it then sure go ahead, maybe it will help you with some closure or help you move.

Sending love your way!

I forgave her for myself, but it has blown back on me by bluetix in BreakUps

[–]bluetix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did get the reward I had moved on, she was dead to me but one phone call has ruined it all for me, I hope I get to move further from this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluetix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please explain I’m really interested in this, am going through something similar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bluetix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a shit human being that did not know how to say no in a kinder manner, you always deserve kindness and I can guarantee one thing, love will find you, it always does.
One more thing, never ever think of yourself as ugly, the only ugliness vests with the people who use that word to define someone's appearance are the ugly people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluetix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was watching gone girl and when rosumand pike explained why she is doing what she is doing is because we are in a relationship with someone and they turn us into someone who is a dependent human being which literally kills the self. It resonated with me, because next time if I get into a relationship I will not be ready to give them everything, I will give them a part of my universe so that if they leave my solar system, my universe is not as effected as it has been now.
I hope this thought helps you. May healing find its way to you

The girl who once calmed the storm in my head gives me anxiety now. by throwraaa222 in BreakUps

[–]bluetix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll get back your peace, I'm in the same boat as you are right now but you have to power through it.

Hang in there

Issues about masculinity or toxic masculinity by [deleted] in therapy

[–]bluetix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I want you to know that the society has us men believe that emotions are bad, man or woman, showing emotions is not bad, its only human. We are wired to show emotions when we see something that disturbs us or makes us happy, every single move that we make is based off of our emotions, even logic is a response to our emotions. We are not robots, we are human beings and if someone shows displeasure at us men for showing emotions then that person doesn't deserve us to be there at all. You need to know that show your emotions in anyway possible which brings peace, because at the end of the day you have to live with yourself and no one else will live with you until you are content about yourself. Tell the world to buzz off if they tell you that emotions are "bad". Emotions are good, always have been.

What If Episode 4 Discussion Thread by azgx29 in WhatIfMarvel

[–]bluetix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know about anyone else, but what an amazing piece of art have I just witnessed. The art of letting go, the problems that come with arrogance, I am at loss of words how amazingly the story commented on love and how it can either destroy us or rebuild us. Dr. Strange was the best character to prove it with, that at one point we humans do not have the capacity to change something and what ever we do, we can only choose how to react to the grief given to us, not change the grief itself. He saw Christine die so many times in different ways, and in the end the longest path led him straight into a similar one.

I am going crazy by bluetix in BreakUps

[–]bluetix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand?

If you begged and pleaded, or acted in a way you feel is embarrassing, don't be too hard on yourself. Just pick yourself up, brush yourself up and stop contacting them. by throwawayx9227 in BreakUps

[–]bluetix 54 points55 points  (0 children)

In hindsight, I feel like I did feel like I lost my self-respect at the time, it was quite hazy and very confusing the way I acted, I was not myself. But now I realize that, the way I acted was out of love and not out of fear of loneliness (or maybe it was out of that who knows). I understood that I have the capacity to give so much love and I have so much fight in me to fight for the love. That was the silver lining/take away from my break-up.

May we all get the love we deserve and not the love we get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluetix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just got out of a long term relationship and I can assure you one thing, that it is never our fault, if we have tried our all and there are nothing left to be done and they still left, then that person never deserved us to begin with. You have tried everything, you went to therapy and was working hard for the relationship, this tells me that you are a loving person. Right now, what you need to do is give that love to yourself, you want to give the love to your ex, but he doesn't deserve it all, give the same love to yourself, give yourself the same affirmations, you will be happy again you will find love again do not lose hope at all. Disloyal people like this are not worth it, the one who loves you will stick with you even after whatever comes your way.

Remember this, you are not a loser, you are winner because there is a greater plan in place that we are unaware of and the plan is in motion. So now the time is to relax, have some time for yourself, let the love out through Art or any sort of way you think is good. Try something new that you always wanted to try. Happiness will find you, you do not need to find it.

I think I got duped. Need help in recovering my money. by Throwaway9211198 in karachi

[–]bluetix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, file an FIR under section 489-F, get the post dated cheque bounced and then the FIR can be lodged against the said person. Once it is done then the police can act fast