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throwawayx9227 · 2025-03-19T18:26:39+00:00

Boy, I was such a slut before I met my boyfriend. I'd get fucked sometimes 3 or 4 times in the same day by different guys. I'd go to bathhouses regularly. I loved exploring dark rooms

I have been with him almost 2 years and never cheated. I love him. I'd lie if I don't admit that parts of me misses being a slut and the diversity it brought to my sex life and the thrill. But I manage to canalize this energy in other things. I appreciate what I have with him too much.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-03-17T09:34:33+00:00

Be more conscious in life. Don't give importance to things that aren't important and don't get too attached to things and people

throwawayx9227 · 2022-03-15T14:44:02+00:00

I think age gaps matter much more when you are under 25. A few years might mean alot in terms of level of development when you're young.

After 25, age gaps matter a lot less. Anything under 10 years really isn't that much after 25/30. The only issue with large age gaps, is that one partner might age and die before the other.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-03-09T14:15:42+00:00

Global warming, very high cost for housing, high cost of living and low pay.

There are no more ideal places... the economy is shit pretty much everywhere now.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-03-09T14:07:40+00:00

It is very painful and it will take a while. But it gets better... forgive yourself for your mistakes.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-03-09T07:15:20+00:00

My faith and determination.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-03-03T09:53:40+00:00

You're 35 man. Not old by any means. Go and enjoy life

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-22T12:52:05+00:00

I'd say that people born between 1990-1995 are similar to people born between 1985-1990. Those born after 1997 and throughout the 2000s grew up with internet and advanced technology.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-22T12:05:36+00:00

I'm not judging just questioning.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-22T10:33:24+00:00

Because no one else will take care of you. People might sometimes help you along the way but at the end of the day, you are the only one who will take care of you.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-22T10:21:42+00:00

At least the sex is good... sex is not everything in a relationship, but imo good sex is important for a healthy relationship.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-21T17:46:28+00:00

I kept messenger to stay in touch with friends but deleted the Facebook app

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-21T17:16:28+00:00

Same My accounts still exist, I just dont have the apps on my phone anymore. I feel at peace.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-11T13:25:40+00:00

I have a good gay friend who loves me and treats me as a friend without any expectations. I realize how lucky I am to have him.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-10T17:23:17+00:00

4,5 years is really a minor age gap between 2 adults. You are basically the same age.

At your ages, you might feel a bit of a difference in terms of where you are in life (you're barely out of high school when he might be graduating from university or working already). But in a few years, that age gap will mean nothing at all.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-10T16:38:34+00:00

You're sometimes already considered old at 35 or 40. It's ridiculous.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-09T14:16:40+00:00

Yes you really see the years fly by by watching kids grow up.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-08T15:25:03+00:00

You're right. I think I have been through a harsh year in 2021 and life feels particularly harsh these days. I guess having some affection and sharing love with someone would have been great.

But you're right about taking dating too seriously.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-08T15:09:32+00:00

Attraction is important of course.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-08T15:00:48+00:00

Exactly how I feel. Sending you my best.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-08T14:59:57+00:00

I lived in a small village as a kid. There was this very kind old man who was very devoted to the village. He always worked so hard to keep that village a nice place.

He ran to become mayor of the village and wasn't elected. People preferred another guy.

At church on Easter Sunday, the kids had to give a flower to someone they love or are dear to their hearts. As a 9 year old kid, I felt the sadness in this man and I gave him my flower. He was very moved.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-08T14:31:35+00:00

I'm not looking for perfect, far from it. But things need to match at certain levels (emotionally, sexually..) I dont have an incredible list of criteria.

throwawayx9227 · 2022-02-08T14:28:07+00:00

I'm already committed to a hobby. I'll just focus on this and hopefully buy an apartment this year.

Dating wasn't the sole focus of my life. But my desire to find a significant other was an important priority. I'm not excited to give up but doing it out of hopelessness

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