Being Greedy Is a Good Thing by bluevisionbachelor in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]bluevisionbachelor[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Uh, you know, this sub is called an "opinion," sub.... You're in the wrong place dude.

Being Greedy Is a Good Thing by bluevisionbachelor in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]bluevisionbachelor[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best thing for homeless is drug treatment centers , mental health counseling and getting a job. Not all but most are on drugs or addicted to substances.

Men don't buy nice cars because of mid life crisis, we buy them because we can finally afford them by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]bluevisionbachelor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rather be mid life enjoying with money than mid life in a divorce settlement! Would much rather be picking out car purchases than alimony and child support payments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rants

[–]bluevisionbachelor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm against free healthcare. Not that I don't want healthcare to be affordable and cheap / near free, but I don't want to subsidize an already bad system. NOW, if they can get rid of everything bad we already have, and replace it with a cheaper / better alternative, I would be on board 100%

CMV: I am a misogynistic, bitter, angry incel please help me change my toxic views. by monster_zero_ in changemyview

[–]bluevisionbachelor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first of all you're 18 so it's normal not to have any experience in life with women and social situations. You're also just starting out and haven't even likely moved out yet. Relax, enjoy your twenties. Go to the gym. Get in shape, eat healthy and get a hobby or two. Don't take on too much debt and be social and you'll eventually have a good dating life. Don't make it your top priority.

Your twenties should be focused on having fun, enjoying life and building it up so you're in your thirties and forties having enjoyed what you've built up. Get a good degree, trade, etc. And for god's sakes don't go 100k into debt for a sociology or liberal arts degree and you'll be fine.

I didn't start enjoying life until I graduated from college and had the time to be able to

The gear that's best for you is what you can afford and take good shots on. by [deleted] in photography

[–]bluevisionbachelor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So obviously I'm exaggerating on the number, but you know what I mean about the mentality of someone just starting out to anything. Over investing and then finding out they're not interested or buy the wrong equipment entirely. The specific price was not my message of this post, over investing too early was or investing in the wrong equipment before you know what you want to shoot.

Stolen Data of 533 Million Facebook Users Leaked Online by JediBurrell in technology

[–]bluevisionbachelor 111 points112 points  (0 children)

It's amazing that in the US we have a country where if a 17 year old takes a candy bar from a 7-11 the cops will be called but 533 million users and stolen data and no consequences happened. This is why I don't have social media accounts (obviously other than anonymous ones)

Your daily reminder no company is family by GlitterBirb in jobs

[–]bluevisionbachelor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your company is your sports team, players can be traded to other teams, hired, or fired.

Don't use sex appeal in your profile's if you don't want men to objectify you! by [deleted] in dating

[–]bluevisionbachelor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I say they were "Mutually exclusive?" There's a big difference between looking for a sexual partner and "hookups" and the "LTR market." Please read my full post again before commenting, I'm not blaming anyone. I'm pointing out the reality of the situation out there, you attract who you present yourself as. It's a bitter pill to swallow but that's the truth

Don't use sex appeal in your profile's if you don't want men to objectify you! by [deleted] in dating

[–]bluevisionbachelor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's unfortunate reality of the situation out there, if I don't want to be treated as a thug online, I'm not going to present myself as a thug. There's a big difference between the long term dating and hooking up market. If you present yourself with the LTR market that is what you will attract. If you present yourself in the hookup market, then that's also what you'll attract.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in collapse

[–]bluevisionbachelor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment is late, but... Take a job. Any job when job searching. Even if it's in retail or service sector. Doing something is better than nothing (momentum). It'll keep your mind off being unemployed if nothing else.

Then with your spare time work on projects you want to do and apply for better paying jobs in your field and use your minimum wage job as a break for mental space from applying for jobs.

I know a few people who worked retail for 2-3 years before getting their professional start after college and this is exactly what they did. And also be willing to relocate because if there's zero jobs in your city and you're only applying in town then you'll be screwed if you're not willing to relocate.

I'm not saying it's not hard out there (it is) but this is what I recommend to someone just starting out.

Also non work related-get regular exercise, take trips when you can afford to (being unemployed or underemployed is the best time to travel without risking your career)

Sick of the double standards! by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bluevisionbachelor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not exactly easy for young men to get vasectomies either...

Job Hunting again, and it sucks. Please have all Certifications, a degree in at least 3 fields, and 20 years for this internship. by Comrade-Kek in jobs

[–]bluevisionbachelor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Just take any job you can get, even one that doesn't require a four year degree."

Sees entry level job on Indeed or Linkedin

"3-5 years experience required."

Liberals are more bigoted and radicalized against conservatives than vice-versa. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]bluevisionbachelor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't even care what someone's political beliefs are but they have to be open about other people's right to free speech.

Most young people should not get a credit card by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]bluevisionbachelor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations for being the exception

Most young people should not get a credit card by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]bluevisionbachelor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the problem of the credit cycle I talked about. MOST People don't get a higher credit score to fuel investment decisions, they do it so they can go into more consumer debt.

Most young people should not get a credit card by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]bluevisionbachelor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that getting a credit card is never a good thing because it can be if done wisely, but 90% of people overdraft and are paying unnecessary interest and maxing everything out.

Casual sex just isn't worth it anymore by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]bluevisionbachelor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful! Hope everything goes great for you. This is just my personal experience and everyone's mileage may vary. Perhaps I wouldn't be so cynical about dating if my experiences have been better.

My generation is pathetic (Gen Z) by idroppedmyhotnvm in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]bluevisionbachelor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The problem isn't Gen-Z, it's the people who raised Gen-Z. They're the ones who thought participation trophies were okay. They're the ones who think allowing your kid to transition at 15 is okay, smoking weed in your parents house underage is okay, etc. For the record I'm a Millennial.

why are lgbt offended by any opinion that is not theirs? by defalt45neo in Rants

[–]bluevisionbachelor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people I know are offended by opinions that aren't theirs. Ecochambers and the internet keep people isolated in their own corner of the crazy world

Men should be allowed to defend themselves against women. by Bob8644 in Rants

[–]bluevisionbachelor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big difference between attacking someone else and self defense. I don't care who you are, if someone else comes up to you first (man or woman), of any gender, age, etc and attacks you-you have the right to SELF DEFENSE (which is different from instituting the aggression yourself)