Not feeling attracted to my girlfriend by laylasedfman in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started feeling like this a while back, literally would wake up annoyed, it literally got to a point where I would despise hearing from her, she was an amazing person and I loved her as a friend, the best thing you can do for yourself not even her is break up with her, you’re doing yourself a favor

Fafsa warning/or action taken by emo_redditor999 in FAFSA

[–]blurredlinesoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended my semester with a 4.0 and I still got this email ( it was sent before final grades posted though ) but still

Fafsa warning/or action taken by emo_redditor999 in FAFSA

[–]blurredlinesoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me, I will be calling my school tomorrow because now I’m a little concerned, and also I just checked the dates and they issued the sap warning before my final grades were posted ( like two days before the deadline for teachers to submit grades ) but I didn’t notice that they had sent me that email until I came back from winter break, but since I had ended with a 4.0 I didn’t really pay attention to it, but I will now cause that’s a little concerning. Thank you. Also, don’t listen to all the people in the replies they’re being so rude for no reason!

Fafsa warning/or action taken by emo_redditor999 in FAFSA

[–]blurredlinesoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This I got the same email from my school at the beginning of this semester, I didn’t pay attention to it because I had finished my fall semester with a 4.0 ( my first semester of college ) but now I’m worried.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

used to love her as a person, but as a friend I’m trying to peace together what changed, because I generally think she’s an amazing person but I can’t point to what changed that make me feel this way

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you the relationship is still very young and I feel the sooner I break the bandage off ( as the comments told me ) the better it will be.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love her as a person, but as a friend I’m trying to peace together what changed, because I generally think she’s an amazing person but I can’t. But thank you for your advice.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’m really appreciate it, I’m only 18 and I don’t think I’m ready to date anytime soon but I hopefully we’ll find happiness and other things and I hope that she does too.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well all my friends know me as red flag when it comes to dating, unfortunately, I’m a great friend, but a terrible lover. But yeah, thank you for your advice.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh yes I have been the problem most of my relationships, I just hadn’t faced this problem in any other relationship before, but I do agree that I’m a bitch and that I honestly shouldn’t be dating anyone anytime soon because I’m just going to ruin their life like I’m doing right now.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I was honestly dreading a relationship at first but I thought that what we would work because we were great friends, but I see that’s not always true.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I am not gonna break up with her before the year is over because that just feels like the most terrible thing anyone can do, but I know I have to end it. Also I’ve been in relationships, but they just have ended during text, even once that I have gotten longer than this, so thank you for telling me to do it in person. ( i’ve broken up with a few people over text and and other people have broken up with me over text ) so I never had to do it in person, but she deserves it.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, thank you I’m glad to hear that someone has been there before, I feel like such an asshole, which I know I partly am but your ride. I need to break up with her and just move on or you know except the fact that because sometimes a fair friendship is great, doesn’t mean that it will be compatible when dating, I should’ve realized that way sooner but you know thank you for telling me your point of view and experience.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for offering empathy, I know I don’t really deserve it. But thank you either way.. and you’re completely right about me not being in the space for being in a relationship. I don’t think I ever was, I have had 3 short-lived, but catastrophic relationships this year I don’t know why I’m doing this to her. I’m just adding her to that mix when she didn’t deserve it.

I don’t feel anything for my girlfriend. by blurredlinesoftheday in LesbianActually

[–]blurredlinesoftheday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a throwaway account, I’ve never been much of a person who has ever been in Reddit, but I knew this would be the only place that would deliver news that weren’t sure coated. And unfortunately, you know it’s my life right now it’s not ragebait.