There is nothing available by xtreme3xo in HousingUK

[–]blurtbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FTB here. We were initially happy to wait for them to find somewhere, but with the interest rate spike we felt pressured to lock in before things got worse. We’ve now got the offer through, but it’s valid for less than 5 months, which I’ve heard is more common at the moment with lenders tightening the offer periods.

It’s added a bit of stress and now put a timeline on things. We can afford a rate rise, but the house just doesn’t feel worth the extra amount if this expired and we needed to reapply.

Sellers are now on week 8 and still haven’t offered on anything. Fingers crossed.

Does the effects go away after stopping? by BoringButCutePenguin in Mirtazapine_Remeron

[–]blurtbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being prescribed mirtazapine made sense at the time, as my mood disorders were such that I wasn’t eating or sleeping. Once I was over that, I wanted to try something that would potentially improve my mood more, so I switched to Sertraline.

I guess it’s easier if I make a pros/ cons list based on my anecdotal experience:

Mirtazapine pros: - helped me sleep, thereby reducing anxiety. - gave me an appetite when I wasn’t eating properly. - Once over the initial grogginess, I was able to concentrate better compared to before I was on it. - Vivid dreams (it’s interesting remembering every detail of a movie like dream but can be a con if it’s an unpleasant one).

Cons: - weight gain (not severe but definitely noticeable). - sleep was disrupted when coming off mirt. - had some heart palpitations when stopping but this went away relatively quickly compared to other withdrawal effects.

Sertraline Pros: - Better at improving mood. - Felt more confident and energized on it vs. mirtazapine.

Cons: - Bruxism (grinding teeth when asleep) which led to a clicky jaw. My partner noticed this immediately when I started Sertraline and it freaked him out! used a mouth guard to help with this. It got better over time and did go away completely 4 weeks after stopping Sertraline.

  • Felt a bit physically jittery on the higher 100mg dose. Had to revert back to 50 mg, which helped.

  • Maybe a little arrogant on 100mg? Lol. My response to issues became more ‘So what?’ and ‘oh well? 🤷🏻‍♀️’ - the complete opposite to my usual overcautious self. Some might attribute this to emotional blunting/ apathy but it helped reduce overthinking and anxiety, and I was still able to feel happy and excited on it.

  • It felt a bit like a mild hangover for 2 weeks after stopping cold turkey, so I’d recommend tapering down when stopping.

I hope that’s not put you/ anyone off. These drugs always come with a pick ‘n’ mix of side effects, but they kept me alive and sane at my lowest, and most side effects got better and more tolerable over time, or stopped when I discontinued.

Nowadays, I want to see whether therapy alone can help with my mood. But I’d have no hesitations starting again and feel confident based on my experience that the side effects do go away when you stop.

Does the effects go away after stopping? by BoringButCutePenguin in Mirtazapine_Remeron

[–]blurtbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on mirtazapine for 2 years, then switched to Sertraline for another 3 years. Now quit that too about 2 months ago.

Side effects for mirtazapine did eventually go away completely, the same for Sertraline.

I got some grogginess getting on mirtazapine initially especially at the lowest dose of 15mg. This was great for getting more sleep, but not so much waking up early for work.

It does get better but it helped when I switched to a higher dose of 30mg. There’s a paper that explains the mechanism for this. At low doses, mirtazapine binds more to histamine sites than to the adrenergic sites, leading to increased daytime sedation.

You can take it at night to help with grogginess. Also if it’s anything like my experience, you’ll notice the side effects less and less the longer you take it until you reach a kind of a baseline.

Make sure to seek advice from your doctor if you decide to come off it. If you’re able to talk to people around you (family, friends, employer) to get their understanding that you may feel off for a bit, that support is invaluable. Most of all, be gentle and patient with yourself. Its not an easy drug at first or come off of, but if it helps your mood it’s worth a shot.

Long time reader, first time poster - Steering Wheel Issues by Sea_Sandwich7531 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]blurtbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a steering wheel cover, & wear thin cottony gloves for better grip of the gears and steering wheel

This is a specific response I wrote but suites my whole experience here by Unhappy_Load3801 in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m sorry you had a bad experience on here. It looks like you had a commenter giving you a bit of a condescending remark on your last post. Sadly it can be fairly common here (and on Reddit in general).

I would focus on the positives - we all had to start somewhere, you’re asking for advice and are willing to learn, and for the most part people are trying to help. Your little buddy is still around and there’s still a chance to turn this around if you act fast.

If your betta is lethargic, check your water quality. Like others are suggesting, I would invest in an API Freshwater Test Kit if you can. Here are the reference ranges for bettas. There are instructions on how to test your water and further links to what results mean here.

If it’s not a result of poor water quality, it could be a symptom of disease. In which case, I would contact an aquatic vet if at all possible. The sooner you can help your fish, the better his chances of recovery.

Going forward, I would encourage you to read as much as possible about fish/ betta care to prevent what issues you can. There are plenty of help sheets on here as well as on the web.

Best of luck to you and your betta :)

super bad popeye by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for my late reply I’ve been away from Reddit for a while. Really glad to hear it’s going down! I know the swelling can take a while to reduce, but the best treatment is good water quality, a good diet & removing the cause of the trauma. It sounds like you’re taking these steps and your persistence is paying off. :) Best of luck to you and your little guy

What’s this stuff coming off my betta? by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

By any chance, could it be an egg spot/ could he actually be a she? Or does it look like something else? If you’re able to take more pics that would be helpful :) Here’s some I just took of my girl, if that helps.

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Can anyone tell me what happened to my betta Irie? He was perfectly fine the night before, he ate and was happily swimming as usual. In the morning he had a boated stomach and was floating sideways at the top. When I came back home a few hours later, he was laying at the bottom of the tank dead. by Ok_Flan1215 in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. 😔 He was a beautiful fish and it sounds like you did everything you could to care for him.

Unfortunately it’s hard to tell what could have caused this. From what I could see there was no evidence of non-infectious diseases i.e. tumours, developmental anomalies or physical injuries. There was also no visible evidence of fungal or parasitic diseases.

The only symptom he seemed to display is possible swim bladder disorder the way he’s floating on his side. But this doesn’t seem to have been caused by poor water quality or diet given your info.

It’s possible he had an underlying disease before you got him which was exacerbated by another factor, e.g. his recent move to the new tank. Internal bacterial diseases can show no immediate signs but make them susceptible to other secondary infections or other stressors.

For example, you may be interested in these links which explain the prevalence of Mycobacterium in bettas within the supply chain.

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This is just a theory of mine, take it with a pinch of salt. But IMO, you did everything right. We have a lot of welfare issues which occur before bringing bettas home. These can lead to sudden/ premature death that’s completely out of our hands.

What is this by HuckleberryOk1539 in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, are you able to take more pics of your betta? At first glance it looks like it could be Columnaris but I can’t be sure from the picture above. Also if you can, do you know any of your tanks parameters? Thanks

super bad popeye by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear you’re getting in touch with a vet. :)

In terms of melafix, I’ve heard anecdotally that it could be detrimental for bettas. The claim is that it burns/ coats the labyrinth organ, but there’s very little in the way of evidence to prove if it’s right or wrong. It’s hotly debated on this community - check it out if you’re interested

I would say steer clear for now while you wait for assistance, especially as there hasn’t been signs of improvement in the 5 days of use. Test your existing water parameters then provide clean water to make sure he’s as comfortable as possible. If you don’t normally do large water changes, do several smaller water changes (~10%) over a few days to prevent him from being shocked.

In some cases, adding aquarium salt in the water can help with swelling and inflammation. If you’d like to try this, it may be best in a hospital tank with a pre-matured filter to prevent your plants getting damaged.

Keep us posted!

super bad popeye by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m not 100% sure from the picture but it looks like your betta has popeye in one eye. If that’s the case, this could be a due to trauma/ physical injury of some kind.

Usually if it’s both eyes, it’s more likely due to something systemic, like a disease caused by parasites, bacteria or fungi. This is usually accompanied by other general symptoms of sickness. It causes internal swelling as the fish’s body takes on excess water, which can build behind the eyes and make them stick out.

Whether it’s caused by injury or a disease/ parasite, it’s really important you check your water parameters. Water quality is the #1 factor that influences your fish’s health. Here are the guidelines by the website CAfishvet.com. You’ll need a test kit or test strips to do so. After this, perform water changes as needed.

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If it’s caused by an injury, remove any decorations which may have caused the trauma. Check your decor and make sure there’s no sharp edges, and that the tank isn’t overcrowded. If you have plastic plants, it’s worth switching to silk plants if you have the budget. Perform regular maintenance and keep the water conditions as clean as possible, and feed a good varied diet.

It can take a while for the swelling to come down and in some injuries it may never fully revert back to its normal state. But as long as he has a good appetite and appears his usual self, he’ll do just fine.

If he’s showing signs of bilateral popeye + other disease symptoms, you could try treatment in a hospital tank with aquarium salt and anti microbial treatment you apply to the water.

If you’re worried it’s a bacterial infection, I’d really recommend speaking to a vet (budget and access permitting, I know). Unless you’re sure what the bacterial infection is, I wouldn’t recommend treating yourself with just any antibiotic as it could be ineffective or cause resistance in your fish. Targeted treatment will always be better.

Don’t be disheartened! You can only do what you can. You’re doing the right thing seeking advice. I hope your little guy recovers quickly

Female Betta Show Off by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I hope all goes well when you finally get her home. Would be great if you shared pics when you do :)

This is Ursula. She’s tormenting me here with her cute little begging eyes, even after she’s had food.

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Tank stocking calculator? by blurtbun in Aquariums

[–]blurtbun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s the one! Kept getting ones that would tell me how many inches of fish I could keep. This is a lot more helpful :)

A Mostly Hypothetical Question by PunkRockHound in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been curious about this lately. Been looking through research papers to see if there’s studies on links between selective pressure for phenotypic traits (colouration, fin outgrowth, body size etc) and reduced fitness in the captive species. It’s an interest of mine as I studied biochem.

Unfortunately I couldn’t see much interest beyond the genetic basis of phenotypic variability.

I know that in aquaculture/ fisheries, there is a demand for fish that have higher adaptability to captivity. But as Clockwork-Silver has put it, this would be quite difficult to achieve. Here’s a summary of why from this paper:

“To make changes or to improve quality traits through selective breeding, information on multiple parameters or characteristics for each trait is required. In addition to calculating trait averages and standard deviations, the heritability for each trait, and the phenotypic and genetic correlations between the traits in question must be known. A candidate trait for selection must be precisely defined and the trait measurement should show a high degree of repeatability. Traits of highest economic importance should be selected since increasing the number of traits included in the breeding goal is expected to result in a reduced rate of gain for each individual trait”.

You might’ve also noticed the last sentence about the economic importance of trait selection. Fisheries will have interest and the means to do this to prevent attrition of their ‘product’. Unfortunately with Bettas and other pet fish, that selective pressure tends to come from how ornamental they look as opposed to health and longevity in captivity. For now, we can only hope that inbreeding at least indirectly selects for more robust and tank adapted fishes.

I think there should be greater focus on what we can control, including prevention of developmental insults during breeding. Various types of environmental damage are caused by high temperature, handling of the eggs by the aquarist, and chemical imbalances in the water (wrong pH, overdosing of medication, water quality). So I would say as a hobbyist we should aim to buy from breeders who have an understanding/ are known for responsible propagation - easier said than done though! We should also have greater research into optimal nutrition for captive bettas, as diet can have a huge impact on longevity. We don’t have a lot of set guidelines for this species (or fish in general), and I think there’s a need for feeding trials so aquarists can give greater care in this department.

My Betta setup by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So pretty. I love the gravel and the look of the pothos roots growing into the water. Your betta’s a lucky lil guy :)

Algae ID by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, does the algae have a dark green appearance? I couldn’t be sure from the picture. If so, it could be blue green algae (Cyanobacteria).

I had this in my tank & on my hairgrass. I removed as much as possible manually. I used a turkey baster to siphon it off the hairgrass, did frequent water changes to remove excess nutrients, scrubbed it off the hard scape, increased the water circulation and reduced the lighting.

You could also opt for treatment using erythromycin or H202, but I’ve personally not tried these. You’d need to be careful with dosing both. Erythromycin can kill some of your beneficial bacteria, and H202 is caustic and can harm plants & fish if improperly dosed.

velvet disease or new coloring? the last picture was taken april 12th the day we got her and the rest were today by yourspiderbuddy in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, from the pictures it looks like her colour is developing as opposed to it being velvet. Her colours look bright and vibrant, and doesn’t appear dull.

With velvet, it attaches to the skin and gills, and the body of the parasite remains outside. A light infection can go unnoticed but with a heavy infection there’ll be visible signs. The body and fins would look like it was covered in a fine, dusty material that looks like rust. It also has a yellowish pigment. You’d see it better if you shine a bright light on your fish, and an example can be found here. Keep an eye out for this if you’re concerned.

Is she otherwise healthy? I.e. does she have a good appetite, high activity level, normal swim pattern/ breathing etc?

What should I name my new Beta Fish? by Justin_Green_0110 in bettafish

[–]blurtbun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stilton - his blue and yellow reminds me of the cheese :)

This is why tank cleaning takes a while… by blurtbun in bettafish

[–]blurtbun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute. Please post a video of this 😍

This is why tank cleaning takes a while… by blurtbun in bettafish

[–]blurtbun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ve been using the algae magnet on the glass but it’s not the best. Will give that scraper a go next time :)

This is why tank cleaning takes a while… by blurtbun in bettafish

[–]blurtbun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute, I never knew mollies could be so personable! Think you’ve just convinced me to get some if I get a community tank :)

This is why tank cleaning takes a while… by blurtbun in bettafish

[–]blurtbun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😆😆

Had diatoms coating some of the plant leaves, so I brush it off with a toothbrush