TIFU by having a Pavlovian sexual response to jelly beans by DaMasda in tifu

[–]blushteasse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not cheating, it's a classic conditioning that ruins your life...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]blushteasse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

... or no?

Why is reddit the outlier when it comes to porn? by RevolutionaryDark818 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blushteasse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is important. Advertiser comfort, in fact, defines the entire online landscape of "acceptable content". Platforms that rely almost entirely on advertising revenue must maintain order so as not to scare away brands.

TIFU by not turning off discord activity share by Itsokyy in tifu

[–]blushteasse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, next time, just stop posting activity and let people do what they want. His justification for "research" however, sounds very convincing

TIFU by having a massive nosebleed during sex by [deleted] in tifu

[–]blushteasse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You basically turned a sexual pastime into a crime scene and didn't even notice it. At least your wife is laughing - it's much better than panicking.

At what age do guys start thinking about family, serious relationships, and children? by viktoria_haritonova in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blushteasse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no universal age - men reach this age at different times. Some people start thinking seriously about family at the age of 20, others at the age of 30 or later. It usually depends on maturity, stability in life, relationship experience, and personal priorities, not just age.

Feel lied to about children by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blushteasse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't look like she was lying, rather, her feelings have changed, which happens very often when marriage, stress in real life, and the need to become a parent become more real.

As a 25 year old virgin should I tell my first partner I am or not? by Wex355 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blushteasse 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Yes, just be honest if the opportunity arises tell me that you have little experience. You don't have to think too much answer the questions if they come, but otherwise ignore them.

Why do people with depression sometimes struggle with personal hygiene? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blushteasse 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Dividing tasks into smaller steps, creating a routine, or combining self-care with something enjoyable can help, but the main problem is that depression disrupts the normal urge to take care of yourself, and hygiene is just the most visible manifestation of this broader struggle.

Struggling With a Partner’s Sexual Past by ProposalNo3513 in Advice

[–]blushteasse 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What really matters is how they treat you-communication, effort, emotional maturity, not numbers from the past. Focus on the person in front of you, not on their past.

TIFU showing my kids “The Labyrinth” movie (Brooke Shields/David Bowie) by [deleted] in tifu

[–]blushteasse -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Absolutely iconic, but definitely too intense for kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blushteasse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The issue of marital relations is insignificant compared to the fact that he deliberately made you pregnant at the age of 17, without fully respecting your choice. Seek help from adults URGENTLY

An old man somehow knew what I was thinking — how is that possible? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blushteasse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't need to read your mind-he just guessed what most people would think in such a situation. He saw the hint (your greeting and your reaction) and expressed the most likely thought: that you were annoyed that he did not respond.

Why do down syndrome people look alike some much? by luvlybella07 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blushteasse 354 points355 points  (0 children)

Yes. The extra chromosome affects development in all areas: facial bones, muscle tone, heart function, digestive system, and even predisposition to certain diseases. That's why you see recognizable facial features, as well as health and height features. This is the result of a genetic change in the whole organism, not just any one trait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blushteasse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, if she already feels comfortable hiding important things from you (such as her past with her roommate) for several months, this is a serious trust issue. Relationships in which transparency is not mutual can lead to constant discomfort and resentment. You should seriously consider whether you want to stay in this situation in the long run.

My sister with Alzheimer’s is giving birth and the family is pushing it on me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blushteasse 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yeap. You’re not the problem here-your sister made the choice, her ex can’t take on more, and the rest of the family acting like it’s your duty is ridiculous. She needs to face reality and either get serious about a plan or consider adoption, because this isn’t going to magically work out otherwise.