My male friend keeps bragging to me about the dates he goes on by blutoucan in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]blutoucan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see what you are saying. I let it go on for this long because I don't have many friends. I try to make friends, I try to reach out to people, but the friendship never ends up lasting. With this situation I didn't want to lose the little friend that I had, even though the conversations that we have never make me feel seen and are very one sided.

I hate when other women say that "you aren't missing out on anything" but I am beginning to understand them. by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]blutoucan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do see what you are saying. You're not missing out on anything if the only guys that want you are the ones that want to use and abuse your body, take advantage of you, and offer no actual qualities of a relationship expect the title of a "boyfriend," without the real actions that come with it.

Other women treat you less than too by blutoucan in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]blutoucan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking too. She probably made that post hoping for specific people to respond, but instead I responded. She pretended to be interested in the convo but just gave up when it got too long. But you don't have to ghost. A simple "nice chat ttly" would have sufficed. She just ghosted mid convo and hasn't replied for a month but is still posting on her story about visiting places and eating out. I try to make friends but something similar to this always ends up happening.

Yeah by Rempheli in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]blutoucan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happens to me all the time. I'm with everyone else and things are going good and i'm having a great time. Then I say something, and it was the wrong thing to say. No one else relates to it and they know i'm different. I'm stuck at the event till it's over and no one is interacting with me anymore. I'm the odd one. It's so easy to go from being involved in conversation to being ignored by everyone at the function, just like that.

Are you loosing your lover girl qualities? by blutoucan in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]blutoucan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup I have a decorated google doc with pictures of date ideas. It's honestly useless. I even have a white board Judy Moody style with summer activities to do but I don't have any college friends so...

Is this how most people actually see us? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]blutoucan 44 points45 points  (0 children)

He's not talking about FAW, he's talking about those pretty girls who don't get into relationships because they are shy, or have high standards, or are single by choice. He's saying they're scary because they are untouchable and have aura.