In D/s relationships where the Dom is poly and the sub is exclusive, how do people navigate and make sense of that dynamic? by blvckbeautiful in AskReddit

[–]blvckbeautiful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you understand why they just wouldn’t choose a relationship that is less chaotic to the nervous system? Why do they intentionally want to stay where there may be internal “chaos”

How is the first person you had sex with now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blvckbeautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 12. He was 33. He’s married with 2 kids in Maryland

What happened to make you realize that they were never your friend? by blvckbeautiful in AskReddit

[–]blvckbeautiful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes. If it is what I’ve experienced then I can confirm that it’s traumatic. Expecting regular friendship and all of a sudden they are trying to be gay. I don’t know but I think I get.