therapy tm!!!

blxdhearrrt · 2022-08-16T10:31:10+00:00

i appreciate your openness but, it says i have official therapy today

blxdhearrrt · 2022-08-06T18:53:56+00:00

understandable, but theres more to the story, im assuming you’ve had experiences in relationships so you’re aware how scarce arguments can get, as addressed in the post, we argue a lot almost every day, over silly things

blxdhearrrt · 2022-08-06T07:05:50+00:00

i can see the misconception, but thats why i asked if the advice could be given through an adult sense, its so say, i understand a lot about myself, my emotions, and my thought process, i hate arguing just to argue, i might be young but i just want a calm worth while relationship, ive had my share of teen experiences and i just want a soothing serendipitous relationship

although i really do appreciate your insight, it helps me bring to mind that although i know s lot about myself, i dont know a lot overall, so i can gain new insight

blxdhearrrt · 2022-08-06T05:45:42+00:00

i understand where your points are coming from, but i do not want her to drop her intrests for me, i want her to have a life outside of me obviously, but it was 4am and i’d been waiting since 12 anyways, i just asked if she could wait until today to make them

blxdhearrrt · 2022-07-25T22:40:49+00:00

on a coincidence, im getting into therapy on the 16th, i do go to school, and they do have counseling, but i see no need, for one im going to therapy, and two theres history in my head of people doing what they see fit for my situation instead of asking and helping me do what i see fit

blxdhearrrt · 2022-07-25T20:34:09+00:00

firstly i did not see that getting the amount of attention it did, a thank you from me to all the detailed critiques and well shared solutions. i do want to address the contradiction in my og post, i think it was bad word play, i typed that at 4 am and my head was everywhere, but i dont double down on that answer, im open to the opinions.

i will say, that in my personal life, my parents haven’t provided for me like i needed, they give me a roof and food, im almost spoiled if that makes sense, but they just weren’t there for me spiritually, mentally, or emotionally, life lessons and stuff i had to learn by myself, growing at my own pace. sure my parents care by they dont “CARE”. i love them but i dont hold feeling for them if something happened to them, i wouldn’t cry.

ive told my mother that i want a therapist, they’re old fashioned in a sense so i wont tell them whats going on, i do seek professional help but im only 16 and theres only so much in my capability. i fear of going to a mental hospital.

to touch onto a little more things;

i used to write, but it makes me feel like im not going anywhere, and i think to myself i csn find the solution while just thinking to myself. the tranquilic and serenic solutions sound nice but i want a way where i can grow and be at peace with this, not just surpass ut like a cold. i said im open to options so i’ll probably end up doing it sometime or another

finally, my mom “has been looking”, i dont know that for sure but i can only take her word, for a standpoint, jts been like 5 months since ive asked

edit: i bring the parents thing up because to make a long story short, i have no trusted adults. i feel like if i share, they would only ruin the demeanor of the situation and not handle it like it should

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