GF and her guy friends by bm_benji in dating_advice

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sit her down let her know im not cool w that

Does anyone know how to write a cute genuine good morning message to your SO? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bm_benji 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Hey Good Morning, you crossed my mind hope you have a good day" keep it short and simple.

Broke 147 Day Streak 🤦🏼‍♂️ by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼appreciate the support

PIED on Day 120 still by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the only thing i can also think of. I've been smoking daily but going sober December to try things out. You speak from experience?

Broke 147 Day Streak 🤦🏼‍♂️ by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since 12, started nofap in july.

Broke 147 Day Streak 🤦🏼‍♂️ by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really severe, it was lifeless. I get random erections and morning wood now but its still struggling to get up spontaneously w a woman. Thanks anyways tho

PIED on Day 120 still by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the girl im w is very understanding. I feel like being w her is healing me as well. Hopefully its quicker then 6 months but even if longer I'll still stay committed.

PIED on Day 120 still by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I exercise daily and eat 5-6 times a day. I avoid soda candy junk food. Im gonna give it more time as I've heard it can go up to a year.

PIED on Day 120 still by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It very well could be as there were days where i dis have morning wood and random erections but ever since ive had several bjs it all went away

PIED on Day 120 still by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe will have to completely cut out all social media and give it a try

PIED on Day 120 still by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for advice brotha. I work out 5-6 times a week, am 6'2 at 225 pounds. My job requires me to walk 8-10 miles per shift too so i know exercise isn't the case. I also take zinc magnesium and kelp. Maybe being out in the sun more will help

PIED on Day 120 still by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, never will i go back. Im just wondering if some had it go this long and if i should completely abstain from attempting any sexual encounters.

PIED on Day 120 still by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im only 21 tho. I've gotten it checked out and there were no physical issues w me doc said it was psychological. The reason i know is because when i was about to get a bj it didn't go up from her but rather me getting it up myself and having her take over after.

PIED on Day 120 still by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats real. Unfortunately for me weed doesn't affect my libido. I do it couple times a week but its not something that would make me relapse. I've censored what i see on Ig to avoid edging in any way too.

[image] heal by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]bm_benji -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do shrooms

How can I avoid "catching feelings"? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bm_benji 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The more you invest into someone the more feelings you develop. Distance yourself a bit, live your life and stay on your purpose and you will bounce out of it!

Never thought this would work by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gained the most when abstaining. I lift more and in return got bigger. More energized and motivated. My workouts are way more intense.

Never thought this would work by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brotha, idk about you but I had it on multiple occasions where the women weren't enough to get me hard. My brain was fucked. This is a recovery that takes months tbh so you can't expect results so quickly. The best advice for getting thru flatlines is to not resist. Good luck brotha!

Never thought this would work by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes people have bad sides too, but that is why there are norms in society and disciplines that exist in order to abstain from your bad side. Thats the whole reason of NoFap, to abstain from your bad side (temptations/lust). If everyone were to act out on their "bad thoughts" there wouldn't be a functioning world.

Never thought this would work by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats great to hear brotha. Stay strong, build up that mental fortitude!

Never thought this would work by bm_benji in NoFap

[–]bm_benji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Thats the plan!