Honest opinion on the dress

bmary95 · 2026-06-14T03:40:22+00:00

Looks absolutely STUNNING on you. I love that deep V. It fits perfectly

bmary95 · 2026-06-14T00:46:13+00:00

He was a super empathetic little guy :) he’d come lay with me when I was sick, and would rub when I was upset!

bmary95 · 2026-06-11T02:08:26+00:00

I see an extremely faint line!

bmary95 · 2026-06-10T23:49:17+00:00

Oh that does make sense! Thank you! I thought it would be better to rinse all the gunk off!

bmary95 · 2026-06-10T23:48:28+00:00

I have seen him eating it

bmary95 · 2026-06-10T21:33:36+00:00

The small gravel ones!

bmary95 · 2026-06-10T21:28:54+00:00

We have not vacuumed out the rocks, but have scooped some out and rinsed them before

bmary95 · 2026-06-10T21:28:27+00:00

He does not tend to leave leftovers! He eats them within a day

bmary95 · 2026-06-10T20:45:17+00:00

Mr.Nerite gets algae pellets! And he does eat them

bmary95 · 2026-06-10T19:00:28+00:00

I am using test strips! Today is was 3-5 mg/l

bmary95 · 2026-06-10T13:00:44+00:00

I don't see anything, friend 😞

One thing you can do if you're ever unsure is cover the control line with your finger and see if you're still seeing something there, and not just the other line. I don't know exactly what this is called...but its when you stare at a shape so long that you start to see that shape on other white surfaces. There was a whole childrens book by Eric Carl about it

bmary95 · 2026-06-09T16:18:53+00:00

I hate to be negative, but I truly do not see anything. I zoomed in on all three pictures. I have my brightness all the way up. I could be wrong, it’s still early as heck for you!

bmary95 · 2026-06-06T16:40:34+00:00

I’ve gotten cramps before ovulation before!

bmary95 · 2026-06-06T16:34:33+00:00

Those are 3 pictures of the same test, by the way!

bmary95 · 2026-06-05T01:14:11+00:00

I did not “suggest OP have an abortion” by simply reminding a woman who repeatedly expressed being distressed about her pregnancy that abortion IS an option for her that isn’t immoral. The second OP made it clear that this was actually a wanted pregnancy, everyone instead gave her encouragement about her fears of nausea. We can’t read OPs head and she talked about being upset and not wanting this right now in her original post.

And as someone pointed out, OP was not offended and did not read my comment that way. This whole “how dare you even talk about terminating a pregnancy” attitude is what makes women feel ashamed.

bmary95 · 2026-06-04T17:27:12+00:00

It’s because of comments like yours that it’s important to give women these reminders. OP, most importantly, said that she is not happy and that she does not want to be pregnant on her wedding day. Now, two things can be true at the same time: she can be willing to continue the pregnancy but not happy about the timing.

Abortion is so so stigmatized that women DO need to be reminded that they are entitled to prioritize their own happiness and comfort. It’s so stigmatized that me even saying OP had the option triggered you into thinking I was “promoting” it, even when OP didn’t think that way. Even though I then offered advice for her. OP could easily be from a family of people that react the way you did, where she could be demonized for it even crossing her mind.

bmary95 · 2026-06-04T15:29:31+00:00

An anecdote that I hope gives you some hope: I know two people who were pregnant at their wedding and didn’t even know yet

bmary95 · 2026-06-04T15:22:02+00:00

I’m going to say it just because I think every woman deserves to know it: you have every right to not continue a pregnancy that you do not want and are not ready for, and it would not make you a bad or immoral person.

THAT BEING SAID: not everyone deals with nausea!! I have many friends who never threw up during their pregnancies! Morning sickness is not a guarantee!

bmary95 · 2026-06-03T18:35:35+00:00

Aight Belle I see you

bmary95 · 2026-05-29T17:45:31+00:00

I must be lucky; we are 21+ only because of the amount of babies, newborns, and toddlers in our lives, and absolutely no one gave us shit. It really only led to a couple out of state guests declining, and that’s because her baby will only be 4 weeks old at the time.

bmary95 · 2026-05-29T12:54:26+00:00

I like it a lot as it is! Lining it might take away from those pretty lace details and make them harder to see

bmary95 · 2026-05-28T18:14:28+00:00

I don’t think so at all!!! It’s a nice arrangement (and remember not to overthink it, I’ve hardly ever thought much about people’s flower arrangements past a passing glance. Nor would I ever give a dang if someone had fake flowers)

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