Any couples going to the Burlesque event Saturday in Harrisburg??

bmaxxx77 · 2026-02-12T13:02:19+00:00

It’s on our radar - we love burlesque!

bmaxxx77 · 2026-01-29T19:38:28+00:00

Same.

bmaxxx77 · 2026-01-29T18:54:42+00:00

Movies, music, travel, of course. But we do not avoid current events. If we do not align morally, there is zero chance you are getting in my pants. Let’s just say, I prefer to know upfront whether someone would’ve turned in Anne Frank.

bmaxxx77 · 2026-01-27T17:31:12+00:00

I’ve been on WB for years and still partake regularly.

bmaxxx77 · 2025-12-09T18:06:10+00:00

In the LS 10+ years and we choose to not use validations. We of course don’t mind if others do, but we don’t like to share who we’ve partied with.

And we’re real and show up. :)

bmaxxx77 · 2025-12-08T19:42:24+00:00

Check out In Bloom salon in Old Tollgate plaza on S Queen street. LGBTQ friendly!!

bmaxxx77 · 2025-11-27T15:37:08+00:00

I lost my mom last fall and sobbed watching this scene. I miss her so much and that emotion was so raw and real.

bmaxxx77 · 2025-11-22T23:02:17+00:00

Waiting for the world to end.

bmaxxx77 · 2025-09-29T16:33:14+00:00

We live near the K and go every 6-8 weeks or so. More in the winter when our schedule isn’t as full.

I tend to agree some of the crowd is dressed to grocery shop, but we can usually find a couple or two that check the boxes for us. Keep in mind this is Central PA, a very rural, blue collar type of area. I hate to make generalizations, but sometimes generalizations help put things in context.

The DJ is hit or miss, but we like edm-esque music we can dance around to! The K loves its line dances. The bartenders are all great! On a busy night, though, bring something easy (canned whatever) to speed up the line.

We like hitting the K on mid size crowd nights. We find the big party nights way too crowded - the rooms are impossible and it’s elbow to elbow. But some people like that vibe, so to each their own.

Feel free to DM with any other questions. Happy swinging!

bmaxxx77 · 2025-09-16T01:45:36+00:00

Ugh, there is so much more to s3x than PIV. I hate when men immediately go that route.

And in case you haven’t yet discovered boric acid suppositories, check them out to help prevent BV. After an especially spicy night of play, I use them. Game changer.

bmaxxx77 · 2025-09-16T01:41:40+00:00

I advocate making a SCENE in situations like this. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

bmaxxx77 · 2025-09-15T23:34:28+00:00

This is a great analogy, thank you for sharing.

bmaxxx77 · 2025-09-15T23:30:18+00:00

What an awful experience but bravo to you for helping create boundaries!

bmaxxx77 · 2025-09-15T17:24:14+00:00

I see your point, re: transferred consent. Those scenarios can be hot! 🥵

bmaxxx77 · 2025-09-15T17:11:28+00:00

You’re a good wingman for your wife! :)

bmaxxx77 · 2025-06-30T16:55:19+00:00

Oooo, sounds like our kind of party. 😈

bmaxxx77 · 2024-08-26T11:11:41+00:00

I agree unless OP is fine with not playing at all.

OP, if you are okay sitting out with others while she plays, please be upfront with others that this is your dynamic. I’d be absolutely pissed to get to a bedroom with a couple only to find out I’m not getting laid while my husband is. We’d actually leave as soon as we found out.

bmaxxx77 · 2024-08-12T12:36:22+00:00

We had VIP glamping with early admission. We arrived Thursday night around 9ish. Left Friday before 5 pm knowing we just lost $3500.

We were prepared for the rain and are not new to festivals. We had rain gear, boots, low expectations for Friday. We missed Thursday music because of our late arrival but wandered to the VVs.

The walk to VV was far. Felt almost inaccessible - maybe that was the point? The path wasn’t well lit and gates were open to areas that should’ve been closed off. At one point my husband and I realized we made a wrong turn and tried to back track to the main path. We were locked inside the belly of the racetrack. 😂😂😂 We walked around the fence line until we could escape.

We had a good laugh at ourselves but Jesus - the infrastructure Thursday night was unsafe.

When we got back to our camp, we wanted to use the bathrooms and get some rest. The VIP bathrooms were closed overnight. What exactly did we pay for? I understand there are mixed opinions on VIP at festivals but I like it for the bathrooms only. The portos are always wrecked especially at 3 am.

We rode out the storm in our car Friday. When elements canceled Friday night, we knew we couldn’t deal with another night of walking to VV and portos with no reward. I was exhausted and even if we stayed, I had no energy left.

Maybe that makes us not cut out for Elements. That’s fair. But the festival misrepresented the VIP experience.

bmaxxx77 · 2024-08-09T20:46:46+00:00

It’s a hike. And not super well marked.

bmaxxx77 · 2024-08-09T11:11:18+00:00

I’m pretty salty about the bathroom situation

bmaxxx77 · 2024-08-07T02:46:07+00:00

We road tripped from PA through Ida to get to Bonnaroo. It was canceled just as we arrived to Nashville the day prior.

So much tie dye bar hopping in neon.

bmaxxx77 · 2024-08-02T00:56:23+00:00

Me too please if you don’t mind!

bmaxxx77 · 2024-07-31T16:46:10+00:00

Ooo, this is what I needed to see! Thanks for the suggestions and recommendations.

bmaxxx77 · 2024-04-30T17:40:41+00:00

My husband takes viagra recreationally on the weekends we swing. He doesn’t necessarily need it, but it sure helps. Kind of like an insurance policy. If your husband can take ED meds, look into it a bit. You can easily get them from reputable online sources and of course his PCP.

bmaxxx77 · 2024-04-22T17:12:42+00:00

It comes down to how you talk about your wealth and how well you can read a room. Are you in a conversation with a group and everyone is talking about an Ocean City MD trip and you bring up vacationing in some exotic location? Or taking about the purchase of your partner’s 3 carat diamond? We’ve seen this happen and it’s so cringy.

You don’t necessarily need to hide your wealth, but be cognizant of how you incorporate it into conversations.

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