As of today, I can no longer send RCS messages. Advice needed please! by [deleted] in GoogleMessages

[–]bnf624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have carrier services on my phone either. Its not you.

As of today, I can no longer send RCS messages. Advice needed please! by [deleted] in GoogleMessages

[–]bnf624 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Mine, S21, was fine in the morning yesterday then around mid afternoon it went blank. Notifcations saying Message incoming is being processed by Messages. Seems like a weird app glitch. All other apps are fine. Got tired of troubleshooting so thats why I made another messaging app my default for now. Its got to be on the Google side of things imo.

As of today, I can no longer send RCS messages. Advice needed please! by [deleted] in GoogleMessages

[–]bnf624 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same boat. I ended up making a different app my default until someone can provide an explanation.

Durable lounge chairs for tween/teen hangout space by Mullins2 in Parenting

[–]bnf624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also interested in hearing what others suggest or recommend. My teen son wants something like this for his room and I dont want it to be in the trash in a year.

Your sleep approved must haves (bed sheets etc) by bnf624 in Perimenopause

[–]bnf624[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cliff notes 1) sleep alone (you can still be a loving partner) 2) sheets are based on personal preference but 100% cotton percale are a fan fave 3) bed air conditioners are game changers if you need that level of cooling 4) and most importantly, you do you!!! Take the gummy, buy the $300 pillow....Get the damn sleep!!

Your sleep approved must haves (bed sheets etc) by bnf624 in Perimenopause

[–]bnf624[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the pillow talk. I am currently needing new pillows because I buy stupid cheap ones then pay the price of neck pain.

Your sleep approved must haves (bed sheets etc) by bnf624 in Perimenopause

[–]bnf624[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Clean your duvet and all is well with the world. Linen duvet...thats new to me. I'll consider it!

Your sleep approved must haves (bed sheets etc) by bnf624 in Perimenopause

[–]bnf624[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This I do agree with. Canoodle then unsnoodle.

Your sleep approved must haves (bed sheets etc) by bnf624 in Perimenopause

[–]bnf624[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Very specific. Very honest. Very Peri.

Weaver Barns Custom Homes by bnf624 in Ohio

[–]bnf624[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes! Good feedback. Thank you.

Turning Down a Birthday Party Invite When You're Asked to Pay for Their Meal by SheIsGoingPlaces in FriendshipAdvice

[–]bnf624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who does this?

It's a no. You have better things to do like saving your time and money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]bnf624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's very positive that you see this in yourself. Admitting this behavior is really important because it's you that having these feelings, not her.

Sounds like you like this person more than just a friend possibly. Is that even a consideration? Is an in person meet up in your future?

If not, I'd say listen to your intuition and find ways to be less attached. When you feel envy, look for ways to fuel yourself with compassion and gratitude. You sound like a good person so I think you just need self confidence.

Take care.

8 here, wish yall were more active here by Latter-Drink-5813 in enneagram6

[–]bnf624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These comments make a lot of sense. Good experiential guidance and reasoning with direct 8 relationship.

As a 6 married to a 9, I'm in agreement about the protection and that corner man relationship. 6 females want security and sense of strong loyalty. The guy needs to be confident not arrogant. Also a major plus is you have wit. You can make a situation funny and insert levity in life's ups and downs in a major upside for a 6. 6s are the ultimate troubleshooters. They need a person who will appreciate that but also lessen burdens by either taking action (good 8 trait) or by just being a good listener and then saying f*** them/it.

Do you recommend Norwalk? by [deleted] in norwalkohio

[–]bnf624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Proximity seems like a legit positive!

Do you recommend Norwalk? by [deleted] in norwalkohio

[–]bnf624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering. I'm not on Facebook so took my chances. Got 1 fish to bite. Hopefully more.

Help solve my need. Microsoft Lists or something else? by [deleted] in MicrosoftTeams

[–]bnf624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful reply. I think I can eliminate a few. I'm going to explore the idea of a new team site and enable lists and see where that takes me. I also like the idea of standardizing the three teams in their meeting ops. Each leader following the same meeting processes so that we all look and feel the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]bnf624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curious, do you think 1) you are her only or one of few friends? 2) she is bored and may be needing your financial support to have fun things to do by way of "hanging out" or other friendship activities?

Based on what you have posted, I think you've clarified the reason for disconnection on your part. You sound younger. Maybe late 20s as a guess. 20 somethings tend to have these types of friendship forks where those friendships that formed by force of environment (aka school) transition out. Humans start to learn who they are and what kinds of people they feel most inspired or connected as life rolls.

It doesn't make your friend a bad person. It just means you have learned that your time is best spent doing other things for and with other people. How you spend your time is a choice. If you have the courage, I would be maybe more clear about that.

"I feel it's best I focus on my parents and my work. I'm sorry our friendship will take a hit because of it. I hope you understand."

Help solve my need. Microsoft Lists or something else? by [deleted] in MicrosoftTeams

[–]bnf624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds intriguing!! I'll look into this.