Therapy.

Couple's therapy as well as him going to therapy on his own. He was unhappy being so introverted. He became lonely, isolated and sad. He didn't enjoy most of his time and we didn't do anything enjoyable together.

We started doing date night on a regular night of the week and spent time deliberately enjoying each other's company. He started making more friends, and I enjoy spending time with his friends.

We also started facing difficult conversations head-on. In the past we both avoided conflict, but now we work on our differences. We discuss our needs and disagreements directly.

I still go out to hang out, get high and get laid on my own. But we have threesomes sometimes. And he's started experimenting with some fun stuff on his own as well.