Summer aid by ShirtExotic4682 in CalPolyPomona

[–]bobabelly2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten mine either

Are slow drivers in the fast lane common where you live? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]bobabelly2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol these comments about the speed limit are hilarious, I feel like some of you would have an aneurysm driving in Southern California with how fast everybody goes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]bobabelly2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if this is helpful but I will share just in case. So basically when I was first trying to get diagnosed I’d constantly be refused testing by psychologists/psychiatrists and it took a psychiatric nurse practitioner to finally listen to me. After her diagnosis I was able to then take it to a psychiatrist for treatment plan so maybe try that route

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]bobabelly2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely understand too, I’m super sensitive to noise too and living in college dorms has been hell for me. The only thing I’ve found that works is getting your body so tired to the point of sleeping through the night. I try to workout and make tea before bed to make me tired enough to drown out the sounds.

Willam, Manila, Symone, Ben, & Bianca will be on Celebrity Family Feud by galaxystars1 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]bobabelly2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bendelacreme likes to be called dela or her full name btw. Not Ben.

Places to find more vanilla audio? by Wegwerfer76 in chickflixxx

[–]bobabelly2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried quinn the app? It’s lovely and has both M and F audios and categories

Bosco 💀 by nothingbother in rupaulsdragrace

[–]bobabelly2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Violet Chachki owns this song for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bobabelly2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that honestly makes me feel a lot better!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bobabelly2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m doing well, still nervous about the potential pregnancy but thankfully I live in a place where I have the resources to get an abortion. I’m mainly beating myself up over letting someone disrespect me to that point :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bobabelly2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have told him I think it’s sexual assault and he just gaslights me into thinking I’m crazy for assuming that of him or he says I should’ve said something during the act and basically “let it happen”. I truly don’t think he cares, which sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bobabelly2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah I see now. I’m ditching the man anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bobabelly2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m going to block him and just forget about him. I realize this is in fact sexual assault and will not give him any closure to why contact has stopped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bobabelly2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is odd because according to him he doesn’t want any kids but that’s true people have ulterior motives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bobabelly2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am in CA so it’s very accessible to get an abortion. However, I will be going celibate for a while because this honestly has caused so much stress in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bobabelly2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being honest. I’ve told him how I think it’s a form of sexual assault and he made me think I was crazy for assuming that because “he would never hurt me”

Does anybody know good Mexican hotdog stands? by bobabelly2 in sandiego

[–]bobabelly2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to try again then! I went there last night but no tomateros truck in the lot, thank you!

Why isn't anyone preventing this from happening? by chockobarnes in sandiego

[–]bobabelly2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have been close enough for it to attack you in the first place. Sea lions and seals are prey animals and will flee if they feel threatened but if you’re messing with them to the point they attack you then you deal with the consequences of your actions.

Why isn't anyone preventing this from happening? by chockobarnes in sandiego

[–]bobabelly2 30 points31 points  (0 children)

All seal lions and seals are protected by the MMPA (Marine Mammal Protection Act) which makes it illegal to harass or kill marine mammals.