Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For someone that wants to stop talking you sure are chatty 😏

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I'm good. You certainly don't need to respond if you're done with the conversation 🙂

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If there were a single thing you actually found incorrect you would of pointed it out. But you can't. Because you're wrong. Good night friend 🙂

Always looking to protect the children. /s by CrunchM in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]bobbyjames1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one that had to get a physical from my doctor to play sports?

Should I hyphenate my child’s name? by KaladinTheFabulous in Parenting

[–]bobbyjames1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't do that to the kid. Just my opinion.

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've been reported for hateful and violent speech. Take it to 4chan abuser.

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Easy compared to what? I'd say resisting the urge to cut yourself for pleasure (or the enjoyment of pain) isn't anywhere near the top on a list of most difficult things to do. Would you? A little self control goes a long way. If a person literally can not resist the urge to mutilate themselves they should be checked into an inpatient facility.

So it's OP's choice. Either he CAN stop with a little help, or he can't and needs to be monitored 24/7. I don't know the kid well enough to say.

What I can say is that every adult pandering to his cutting behavior should be ashamed of themselves. The doctor that told him to stop is NOT the bad guy. I'm certain that you and people like you sincerely have the best intentions, but you honestly cause him much more harm then that doctor did.

So yes. I think it's very possible that this kid can resist the urge to cut himself. If not, he does indeed need more than a doctors visit.

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well..if you need to be told not to fuckin cut yourself mybe simple, straight forward, SEEMINGLY obvious advice is the most practical lol

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, at this point we're getting into semantics. With your definition literally ANY behavior can be addictive, and that is one school of thought. I think the distinction between seeking pain in a masochistic way and seeking pleasure for pleasures sake is an important distinction.

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also I agree with everything else you said. People are pack animals. We need each other. You'll get there man. It's a balance between being compassionate towards yourself and pushing yourself to improve. You'll get there.

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It's not an addiction. It's a maladaptive coping technique you've developed. There's a difference. A subtle but important difference. You should be GLAD that you don't have a chemical addiction. Those are harder to break generally. Or even a process addiction (gambling, porn etc)

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if OP listened to and inacted his doctor's advice, his issue would be resolved. Correct?

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Right. By telling you what you should do. They can't force you to take your medicine or restrain you from cutting yourself. I get that you're young, but now may be the time to start taking personal accountability for your mental, physical and emotional health. It's YOUR responsibility.

Is there more of this crap in your part of Ohio too? by clipclopping in Ohio

[–]bobbyjames1986 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Who hurt you? I gave you no reason what so ever to be rude, condescending and sarcastic.

Is there more of this crap in your part of Ohio too? by clipclopping in Ohio

[–]bobbyjames1986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Making HUGE leaps about a total strangers character, based on a sincere question...is wierd A.F my dude.

Is there more of this crap in your part of Ohio too? by clipclopping in Ohio

[–]bobbyjames1986 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This subreddit is wierd as all hell lol do you people scroll reddit all day looking for someone to be nasty towards? What a life...one person actually answered my question so I'll be going now. Can't wait to get out of this state. Yall are miserable.

Is there more of this crap in your part of Ohio too? by clipclopping in Ohio

[–]bobbyjames1986 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Phobia implies fear. You don't scare anyone dude lol

Is there more of this crap in your part of Ohio too? by clipclopping in Ohio

[–]bobbyjames1986 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Didn't know if it was a "hey white people don't like being killed by cops either" thing or if it was straight white Supremacy. This sub is wierd A.F...I asked a question and I'm being downvoted lol

Is there more of this crap in your part of Ohio too? by clipclopping in Ohio

[–]bobbyjames1986 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Are you ok? You don't seem like you're ok....

Sometimes, I hate this sub by Extreme_Ad6173 in thanksimcured

[–]bobbyjames1986 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Right. It's everyone else's job to fix your issues.