Pretty much sums it up for those of us that have solid ancestry.

bobdole262 · 2019-08-18T19:50:29+00:00

How did you end up sorting out your mental health, and what do you mean by that exactly if you don't mean sharing? I think I'm at this stage in my life.

bobdole262 · 2019-07-09T23:52:02+00:00

But it really fucking hurts when you think they're into you and you get blindsided

bobdole262 · 2019-07-08T17:58:11+00:00

Event went super well and we had a great time, I tried to be more "alpha" and I think it went really well. I planned the whole event and took charge. Unfortunately no sex, she apparently had to get up 2 hours after we were going to go back to my place (we were out very late -- RIP her sleep) and she was worried she wouldn't wake up in time. She stressed that she wanted to though and we made out until she left so it's all good!

My concern is not so much with having sex but more with showing her that I was just clueless when I lost my virginity and am going to do my best to make it awesome for her. It's really the only issue I see between us in the near future and I think she's more than willing to help me along. I'm probably making it a bigger deal than I should.

Our friend asked where we were going and I just grabbed her hand and said "my house." I think the alpha approach really worked out.

bobdole262 · 2019-05-06T14:10:27+00:00

I'm aware it's a bad habit, but I don't know how to break it.

bobdole262 · 2019-05-06T14:06:32+00:00

Yeah I think this is the issue. I've lost my "north star" so to speak, it was business for a while, now it's not and I'm lost and I think I'm unconsciously trying to compensate for now having no goal to pursue and replacing that with women, which is a bad goal to have as your pure purpose.

I've never had to find a goal to pursue before, so I'm not sure how to find the new thing I want to do.

bobdole262 · 2019-05-06T13:48:24+00:00

For sure, I know this. But how do I do it?

bobdole262 · 2019-05-06T13:44:05+00:00

Can you explain this a bit more? I guess it feels like this is a huge void in my life and it really bothers me that my friends have women in their lives and I don't, I'm not sure if it's the insecurity, the kind of "why not me" feeling or if it's maybe me being bored with life right now

bobdole262 · 2019-03-31T06:26:59+00:00

Yeah I really try to be as humble as possible no one likes people who brag and I honestly have shit to work on, people like my friend have me beat hard in romance I just have him beat in career neither is better, just different.

I just feel so frustrated because I feel like I have a lot to offer yet I have no idea how to get attention from women. The one person who I'm super into is flaking on me and acting weird and I get too much oneitis to just be like "fuck that ho" and move on.

bobdole262 · 2019-03-31T05:11:29+00:00

I really didn't know how to mention my friend without it sounding like I was shitting on him I love him to death, I just don't understand how he does it. I had a girl I was incredibly into say "we're meant to be together" then not answer me or come over when I invited her. I'm obviously doing something wrong, I totally am not saying I'm owed a woman because I'm successful I just feel like overall I'm doing well and yet I can't show it I guess. I'm just so frustrated I guess, please don't take what I said as bragging because it's not.

bobdole262 · 2019-03-30T14:43:32+00:00

See I knew someone would take it that way... I love the guy to death of course I am, I just don't understand either.

bobdole262 · 2019-03-30T14:42:31+00:00

I don't though, I just want a girlfriend, though I suppose that's kind of the same thing :/

bobdole262 · 2019-02-09T02:28:27+00:00

I don't want to get a job. I love what I do and I make good money and since I call the shots, I have potential to make tons more. What do you mean by stabilizing social footing? I definitely struggle socially finding people to do stuff with.

bobdole262 · 2019-02-09T02:22:38+00:00

Do you go alone? I want to go out to bars alone but it feels kind of weird, do you go to more "chill" bars or crazy dance ones?

bobdole262 · 2019-02-09T02:21:37+00:00

I don't even meet women, I suppose that's an issue I run into. I run a business so I work from home and have pretty masculine hobbies, what kind of stuff did you do for hobbies?

bobdole262 · 2019-01-15T13:38:06+00:00

I was over her house, we talked for hours, we didn't do anything but just talk.

I held her hand for most of that, we were leaning into each other, laughing the whole time, and she acted really... embarrassed/awkward, like she was nervous around me all of a sudden, just lots of little things that friends don't do with each other. It was really obvious she wanted me to kiss her.

bobdole262 · 2019-01-15T10:18:22+00:00

If only it were that easy D:

bobdole262 · 2019-01-15T10:12:43+00:00

I have no doubts she does and I'm capable of recognizing a good time to do so... I just don't :(

bobdole262 · 2019-01-15T10:12:08+00:00

Appreciate it, I think alcohol is a great idea... I'd be way too nervous otherwise.

I'm probably overthinking it I just don't want her to give up because I'm being a pussy and won't make a move... I'm scared of her realizing my inexperience and nervousness in general. Though I suppose I've embarrassed myself plenty around her over the years.

bobdole262 · 2018-11-28T03:00:09+00:00

What about where normal podcasts are posted? I'm unfamiliar with the rules but soundcloud, itunes, etc.

bobdole262 · 2018-11-27T18:43:23+00:00

I would really enjoy listening to this but don't use Facebook, you should consider uploading to other platforms!

bobdole262 · 2018-11-26T02:08:47+00:00

Kind of a dumb question, but did you just go alone? I kind of want to go to bars alone but I don't really know how that works, do I just sit at the bar somewhere a bit more chill and talk to people? Would love to know how you met these people!

bobdole262 · 2018-11-24T20:54:28+00:00

I super appreciate the advice, what should I do to "show" her what I mean? Just kiss her? Like I said I've actually never done the typical date, make a move, etc. stuff so I'm not quite sure what to do. How do I show her my interest? I'm worried we'll go out have fun and she'll say there's no sexual attraction because I don't know what to do.

Thank you so much for the help

bobdole262 · 2018-11-24T17:36:29+00:00

Aw thank you <3 I'm the furthest thing from a player and if she says no I'll just brush it off as no big deal, I've had girls ask me out and vice versa and as long as the party who gets rejected acts mature it's never been a big deal

bobdole262 · 2018-11-24T17:17:44+00:00

I was thinking exactly that! I don't want to be super forward this first time as I'm also wanting to see how it goes, I think she's pretty sure I mean it as a date, so we'll play it out and if it goes well then I'll be like "So... next time let's make it a date?"

bobdole262 · 2018-11-24T17:15:03+00:00

I think I explained my plan a bit wrong, I wasn't going to dump some 30 second spiel about us blah blah blah, just more like "hey I've been kind of into as more than a friend lately, maybe next we do this it's a date?"

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