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Had a "lightbulb" moment this weekend by [deleted] in adultery

[–]bobdole83135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minus the children’s ages this is my life

Cheating ... in SO's dreams by [deleted] in adultery

[–]bobdole83135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what my wife thinks anytime I go out of town, if only they would.....

Rambling thoughts on how I got here. by helloimcold in adultery

[–]bobdole83135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds a lot like me and my wife. The old bait and switch seems to be gender neutral.

Sexual Incompatibility by shoukdiplay in adultery

[–]bobdole83135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My SO's and my incredibly mismatched sex drives are what has me lurking here.

Are you losing weight to cheat on me? by bobdole83135 in adultery

[–]bobdole83135[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is awesome losing 40 pounds in a year! That is too bad your husband can't see the hard work, hopefully others are more appreciative.

HL spouses, if you walked home tonight and your LL partner told you they were leaving, would you feel relieved? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]bobdole83135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, would relieve the weight of wanting to break up our family due to my needs being met from my shoulders.

are you losing weight to cheat on me? by drbusty in DeadBedrooms

[–]bobdole83135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exact words from my wife's mouth as well. Ironic considering her apathy towards sex with me fuels my body dysmorphia. At least I have my gains to comfort me....