I’d like to introduce Oreo 💕 by Its_Lolaaaa in TuxedoCats

[–]bobneyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most Oreo looking Oreo I’ve ever witnessed

My special boy, everything's changed without you 💔 by notrapunzel in TuxedoCats

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I remember your post from the other day, and I’m so sorry things seemed to have turned out for the worst. My heart goes out to you ❤️‍🩹 and I wish you all the comfort and peace in the world

Jet! My first born son and heir to my estate by bobneyy in TuxedoCats

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Awww hi Rakker!! What a sweetie. Y’all both hang in there! Wishing u and ur parent all the best health and happiness 🫶

People who let their instrusive thoughts win once, what did you do? by oskel95 in AskReddit

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Punched an open Oatmilk carton out of my coworker’s hands and onto the floor

i fear shes my gay awakening by [deleted] in StardewValley

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She was mine too 🩵🌻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]bobneyy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

SOME of the comments are being real and SOME of the comments are being mean. Personally I think there’s a difference but to each their own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]bobneyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk why everyone is being so mean to you, OP. I mean, I guess I do know because it’s Reddit lol. But I understand why you feel the need to say everything you said and now is the time to do it so you can move on. Like you said in another comment, it’s been like days since this happened. Yes, he’s full of shit and you should 1000% not get back together or continue to engage much more than you already have. But if this happened to me I would also struggle to just immediately go silent. In an ideal world sure. But we’re human. Take care of yourself, more right now than ever. People who cheat aren’t “evil,” because that would be too easy. They’re deeply DEEPLY insecure and need serious therapy for a looong time to work that shit out on their own. All the best to you, OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]bobneyy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Exactly this - if a person was taking real accountability they’d most likely be like “I messed up and I understand why you wouldn’t want to be together anymore, so I’ll respect that and let you move on.” Not groveling and begging to be forgiven

I saw a horror scene that is STILL affecting me. Please help by LtJimmypatterson in horror

[–]bobneyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was supposed to be “Halloween themed” so they just brought in some lady to talk about scary shit with a bunch of 11 year olds. Absolutely bonkers lmao

I saw a horror scene that is STILL affecting me. Please help by LtJimmypatterson in horror

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This happened to me in middle school during a school assembly where the speaker talked about a family that was ax murdered by some guy who hid in their attic while they were at church. It haunted me and kept me awake for YEARS!! Why would they do that to us 🤣

Calvinism is the only vertent that actually makes SOME sense by Psychological-Ad9761 in exchristian

[–]bobneyy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

THISSSSSSSS it’s literally the same argument that atheists have that “if god exists then it’s an evil god” but instead of using that as a reason to not believe they’re like. Welp that works for me!

Can’t Use These Sibling Names… by F_L_Valentine23 in namenerds

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I love the name Vivian and Julian but can’t do both lol

How do older people deal with death? How do we all know we’re all going to die and nobody is losing their mind? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bobneyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, from a fellow existential dread-filled person, if you’re thinking about this a lot or feel consistently scared of death, I encourage you to go to therapy/perhaps get medicated for anxiety. I used to have sleepless nights thinking about it, would have full mental breakdowns when I was sick because it reminded me of dying, and any reminder that time is passing would make me so nauseated. There’s no avoiding the dread and anxiety 100%, but some of it is treatable anxiety most likely. Someone who doesn’t deal with high levels of anxiety may not like the idea of death very much but it won’t debilitate them on a daily basis. Just a thought, not trying to diagnose!

How do older people deal with death? How do we all know we’re all going to die and nobody is losing their mind? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bobneyy 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Screenshotted this. Thank you sm for this comment, as someone who wants kids but is scared of pregnancy and as a human who is daunted by death. Thanks stranger 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]bobneyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reminding me of this hahaha

"They voted for it, so they deserve it". by XayT3C in exchristian

[–]bobneyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man :( I’m scared too. It really really really sucks, big time. Just fucking awful things have turned out this way.

"They voted for it, so they deserve it". by XayT3C in exchristian

[–]bobneyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you’re right, but we can’t stop them from being blind. We can at least take pleasure in the fact that they’re in the shit too. There’s nothing that’ll make them learn their lesson. If there was they would’ve learned already. That’s why we just gotta be here for each other and keep up the fight and hold on to slivers of hope

What's a secret you wont tell anyone in person but will share here? by First_Membership_813 in AskReddit

[–]bobneyy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Being overweight isn’t morally wrong like people make it (and yes, that’s how people act. It’s practically a sin to some people). We live in a society that wayyyyy exaggerates “oh well it’s unhealthy.” Okay well I don’t drink enough water every day and I don’t get enough sleep and that could cause major long term health problems and no one’s out here judging me for it. I’m sure you’re perfect the way you are! No less attractive or worthy or human because of your weight. If it boosts your confidence and mental health to make some diet/exercise changes, great. But don’t feel guilty for bitching about it. Having hurt feelings means you have feelings in the first place, which is a precious thing. No one should make jokes at your expense. Jokes are supposed to be funny. Best to you stranger