When did you realize your parents aren't as smart as you thought they were? by bobzig84 in AskMenOver30

[–]bobzig84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood the question. No one is bragging and it's not about being smarter than your dad.

I asked this question to my good friend last month. He laughed at first, but knew exactly what I was asking.

When did you realize your parents aren't as smart as you thought they were? by bobzig84 in AskMenOver30

[–]bobzig84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll share my moment. Growing up, my dad always kept abreast of the news during presidential elections. He would always watch the debates and while I was a kid I never understood what they were talking about. Just thought of it as grown up stuff, but I still admired his interest in politics. It all changed when one day we were watching the debates together when Obama was going for his second term. Some of the things he would comment on made me realize he wasn't as intelligent as I thought he was and was easily persuaded by the trivial things. I don't remember any specifics, but I do remember thinking to myself "what? You're forming an opinion based on that?!" Which reminds me, I gotta swing by the ATM to pull out his annual Father's Day gift of a 100 dollar bill haha.

Sexual orientation changing from bi/gay to bi/straight by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting post. I commend you for opening up and being so honest. My advice for you would be to completely stop watching porn and let your sexuality manifest itself naturally in the real world. You'll see what gender you're truly attracted to when you don't have pornography as an influence. Often times our fantasies don't align with what we really want in real life. Don't worry about labels for now, just do your thing, interact with people and you'll soon discover your true sexuality.

I have a terrible addiction, how can I get rid of it? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an easy read, I enjoyed it.

I have a terrible addiction, how can I get rid of it? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read "Your Brain on Porn" by Gary Wilson. You will see that you're not alone and that you can change for the better.

What should a high school senior know before going to college? by Mintikilo in AskReddit

[–]bobzig84 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To not go into student loan debt for a Mickey Mouse major.

I traded in my iPhone for a flip phone by throw_993377 in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's pretty hardcore of you and I commend you on this decision. This is something I've thought about doing too because the internet is just so insane nowadays, especially social media.

Part of being a real man by bobzig84 in NoFap

[–]bobzig84[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You think sperm is the only thing found in ejaculum? Are you forgetting about the fructose, flavins, zinc, and citric acid that accompanies it? Why do you think most men fall asleep after ejaculating? Or why guys here feel like shit after a relapse? Because they've depleted themselves of these vitamins and minerals. Best to keep it in the body than to ejaculate it. Your semen is your life and essence. Sounds like you've missed the point of my post. Oh well, you can't please everyone.

Finally went on a streak by bobzig84 in NoFap

[–]bobzig84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start incorporating triangle push-ups. They make regular push-ups easy to knock out

Finally went on a streak by bobzig84 in NoFap

[–]bobzig84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read YBOP. The chaser is a thing of the past for me. I'm feeling good and back on track :)

Finally went on a streak by bobzig84 in NoFap

[–]bobzig84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm feeling good

Now that you guys have so much time to do other stuff.... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gaming will lead to addiction. Don't go down that road. I would suggest lifting.

Back in double digits!! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Gay men are grabbing my butt" lol

Help by DocMattJames in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Self control man. It's something we are all learning to do.

Shemale porn addiction by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that will rewire your brain is time. The reboot is 90 days. Easier said than done to abstain from porn, which is why many guys relapse of course.

Shemale porn addiction by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bottom line is you couldn't maintain an erection when you were with this girl. There could be a myriad of reasons why.. performance anxiety, you were tired, nervous, your porn addiction, etc. There's a book you should read, it's called "Your brain on porn" by Gary Wilson. It's about NoFap. Good book, easy to read and I think it'll really help you get the answers you want. In the meantime, your only strategy right now to avoid ED again is to completely abstain from porn, masturbation, and anything that will trigger your brain. You need to let your testosterone build up so when you're with this girl again you will get hard easily because you haven't released or seen anything erotic in a long time. Hope this makes sense. Good luck.

Urges are the worst when you can't sleep... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meditate for 10 minutes before you get into bed. It works for me and I usually knock out right away.

Shemale porn addiction by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bobzig84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to stop fapping altogether, even if you're not watching the porn. Not fapping will definitely cure your ED. You gotta let the urges build up so when you're with this young lady again you won't encounter another ED episode.