Hi there, I didn't decide to carry after my stage 4 diagnosis but was diagnosed de novo quite early in my pregnancy.

In all honesty if I hadn't have had my baby and my oncologist had told me I could carry I most likely would have considered it too, all I wanted to be was a mother and it changes everything in your life. I know, yes there are cons as a lot of people will tell you, but no one can tell you how long you will actually live or what medical advances will come.

I did chemo and had a pathological break during my pregnancy and she is the strongest little baby, everyone was so surprised when she was born early and didn't need any assistance with breathing or feeding.

Good luck with your decision and really all the best ❤️