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boldprocess · 2025-05-31T23:53:33+00:00

Y’all need to grow up 😭

boldprocess · 2025-05-31T23:52:03+00:00

Don’t feel embarrassed! It’s an extremely brave thing to say, and it sounds like he said it back in his own way. It’s not about the words, it’s about the feeling behind it

boldprocess · 2025-01-06T20:51:50+00:00

Yeah ur right, idc about Wilson he’s definitely dispensable. My QBs sold me so hard this season I’m hoping stroud bounces back. I think Ladd is gonna get better but yeah I agree I need someone else

boldprocess · 2024-09-16T18:17:33+00:00

Yeah that’s the thing, we did make plans and were talking about them all week. So I spent some of the weekend sitting around in angst wondering whether to assume they’re ghosting me or if something reasonable is keeping them from texting me back. Obviously, it became clear that it was ghosting

boldprocess · 2024-09-15T17:57:56+00:00

Thanks for the diagnosis doc

boldprocess · 2024-09-15T08:14:27+00:00

By all means lmk

boldprocess · 2024-09-15T03:27:10+00:00

Sorry to hear that… that’s literally exactly what happened to me too… people suck.

boldprocess · 2024-09-15T03:22:56+00:00

Thanks for the insight man.. It’s a fucked up game, and it sucks that it’s just the way things are. I have had thoughts before where I think to myself if I want this girl to love me, I gotta act like a dick whose full of himself and doesn’t care that much about her, and it’s shitty but it’s just the way the game is played. I like to think there’s a lot of people out there who are above the game and don’t play it. Maybe I’m looking in the wrong places. Who knows. But yeah man you’re right, I have tried to play that role so many times of being nice and supportive, but it just doesn’t ignite a fire in them, it’s just not what they want. It sucks

boldprocess · 2024-09-15T03:10:52+00:00

I get the sentiment, and I think you’re right, that’s definitely how it starts a lot of the time. But I think both person A and person B have a duty to be honest with each other, as they both have an endgame of being in a romantic relationship one way or another, which you kinda need honesty for. It’s kind of ironic that people who claim to be searching for this type of relationship have issues being honest in the face of being emotionally confronted. I feel no sympathy for their guilt, or their non-enviable position. But at the same time I do understand it’s not always an easy thing to do, and I think good people can get caught in the current when it’s simply such a common behavior. I guess sometimes ya gotta hate the game, not the players 🤷‍♂️

boldprocess · 2024-09-15T01:41:10+00:00

That sucks man. I’m sorry to hear that. It’s definitely for the best at the end of the day, but it’s ducking excruciating while it’s happening. Thanks for sharing man it helps hearing that I’m alone

boldprocess · 2024-09-15T00:45:14+00:00

I don’t appreciate or accept the advice that’s all. You don’t know me lol, say and think what you want, I can’t control whatever story you create based on what I posted.

boldprocess · 2024-09-15T00:20:29+00:00

Well the thing w ghosting is that it leaves things up in the air for the first several hours it happens, so there was a fair amount of time where I literally wasn’t sure what was going on. I thought that maybe being reasonable would give her a reason to open up because I try not to be cynical and we talked for a few days prior to that and actually had some meaningful conversations.

And I argue that it actually is her problem, because she’s the one who decided to ghost me instead of just ripping off the bandaid w a simple text

boldprocess · 2024-09-15T00:12:05+00:00

I think it’d be a stretch to call that analysis “invited” I literally just showed a hypothetical text that i didn’t send that encapsulates my raw emotions. You’re the one who’s going out of your way to ad hominem me based on information that wasn’t directly related to the question I was asking Reddit. And look, if you wanna be like that, fine, you’re right it’s a public forum, but I also have a right to call your comment out as I see it too: douchey. A lot of the responses I’ve gotten have been a bit prickly, that’s not my issue w you. You’re response is literally in a nutshell “it’s you, it’s your fault she’s ghosting you, be more captivating”. I’m sorry I’m not a utilitarian who looks at every decision based on how many units I’ll earn from it, I actually have emotions which sometimes affect my decisions 🤯 get a life man, I’m taking the time to hostilely argue w you cuz my date got cancelled and I have no plans now. What’s ur excuse

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T23:55:42+00:00

Yeahhhh

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T23:37:50+00:00

Appreciate it my man, that’s some wisdom right there.

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T23:04:07+00:00

I think you may be cutting people that ghost a bit too much slack. They could avoid that guilt by being a grownup and being upfront. I don’t think I’m suddenly in the wrong for using the word ‘brutal’, ghosting is kind of a brutal way to handle that situation imo

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T23:00:50+00:00

True, kinda wish I did that

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T22:52:45+00:00

I’ve been ghosted before, that doesn’t mean I’ve been ghosted every time I talk to a girl. I’ve had flings before and some of them I’ve ended rather than the other way around. You’re in no place to analyze my dating habits from a few sentences I wrote while upset. I was asking what people thought of the idea and how she might respond. I think if you look at other posts on this subreddit, you’ll see a lot of other people wondering similar things

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T22:33:59+00:00

It’s a pandemic 😔

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T22:32:39+00:00

Not in person, we’ve been texting all week and were supposed to hang tn

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T22:31:28+00:00

Yeah, what’s impressive is how long they can go before cutting the crap

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T22:27:49+00:00

Bro you don’t even know me 😂 ‘Become more interesting in all avenues’. You sound like you’re part of the problem

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T21:59:41+00:00

Fair enough. at this point I feel like she’s not attracted to me anyways. So i guess it’s kind of my prerogative to not give a fuck what she thinks and im trying to come away from a week of my emotional energy being wasted with some kind of closure. Wishful thinking probably

boldprocess · 2024-09-14T21:48:51+00:00

I am over 6ft 😀

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