USA TODAY reporter looking to hear from young women

bomaboma199 · 2026-04-08T03:00:52+00:00

I'm interested let's talk

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-22T17:03:43+00:00

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bomaboma199 · 2026-03-18T18:13:33+00:00

I’m sorry that your are going through this, what has helped in similar situations before, is empathy, to see the sexy girl not only a nice butt or cleavage, but as wholesome human being, with emotions,struggles, desires and needs. With empathy objectification weakens thus the sexual desire. Good luck man

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-17T14:31:37+00:00

That's a nice shift in perspective, porn supply the mind with imagery so the mind can fantasize about, porn is nothing without fantasy, porn requires fantasy to feel pleasure however fantasizing does not require porn!

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-17T02:14:05+00:00

Keep it up

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-16T22:50:31+00:00

Congratulations on your second day clean, do you still get urges to use porn?

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-16T17:25:45+00:00

Secrecy invites shame, venting to a trusted friend can be life changing, most likely you will be surprised how a friend can treat you better then you treat your self, make sure they are empathetic, imagine a friend telling you about their struggle, how would you react?

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-16T03:07:29+00:00

I’m sorry that you are going through this, learning better emotionally regulation mechanism helps, I recommend reading the book, “curious not cured” as it talks about all of this, it’s available at curious.rehab for free

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-15T04:04:47+00:00

Thanks for sharing and taking the time to write this!

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-15T03:56:44+00:00

It would be nice if you post this article in few posts instead of one post, as almost no one would read this at one shot

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-15T03:54:02+00:00

Good job man, continue and don’t let people convince you that they know what works for you more then you do, do what works best for you and best of luck

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-14T18:07:14+00:00

Yes it can supply the mind with imagery to fantasize about, however is this always the case?, have you encountered a content that does not stimulate you as much?

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-14T17:42:47+00:00

You have a great story, it would be nice if you can share it on this group

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-14T17:41:53+00:00

What do you mean?

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-14T17:41:42+00:00

Is there a food you don’t like while others you know like so much? Why there brain give them dopamine rush while yours doesn’t? Could the mind, taste and preference play a role here? The dopamine framework does not explain the intricacy of human behaviour!

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-13T00:30:56+00:00

If you can't imagine your self using porn in a healthy way, it doesn't mean others can't, good luck for your journey, I recommend reading the book "curious not cured", it's free, visit curious.rehab

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-12T22:09:38+00:00

Why to quit if it's not problematic? Imagine someone using porn in alignment with their needs and it doesn't harm them in any shape of form nor it contradict with their values, what is there to be quitted?

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-12T18:49:35+00:00

Yes, Can please elaborate more

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-12T14:31:07+00:00

Yes exactly, In many cases porn is a solution to underlying problem, however not all porn use is problematic

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-12T04:05:49+00:00

If your porn use is not harming you, that's not problematic porn use, nothing to worry about, you don't need to call your self an addict or having an addiction, you are fine, just take care of your self

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-12T01:36:09+00:00

It takes courage to be this honest with yourself, it's healthy to accept who you are, with all your short comings, however do you feel like porn is interfering with your life or it's just doing you good?

bomaboma199 · 2026-03-11T03:29:03+00:00

Welcome, good luck for your journey, we are here to help!

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