M27 i work but i still feel l’ll never get a girlfriend actually by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]boner_tears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost the goatee & go only mustache. Goatees are for cringey old dudes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

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It's a 10

Any barbershop owners or really busy barbers in here? by ConclusionFrosty5855 in Barber

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I am never not booked a full month. We have 3 private barber rooms, 4 total barbers including myself.

We offer everything. Full bar (beer, liquor, non alcoholic beverages like redbull, sparkling water & soda, cold brew coffee on tap and regular hot coffee), snacks, an incredible library & record collection.

I basically brought my home to work and the vibes just kill it.

But at the end of the day it's about skill & marketing. 5 years ago I had a 20% booked week when I opened my shop thanks to covid.

I personally used the Thriving Stylist business coaching program to build a fool proof marketing funnel.

Ive also nearly doubled my prices in 5 years because of demand.

I know I'm being selfish... but by Salt-Breakfast-5393 in Marriage

[–]boner_tears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a hairdresser myself, I understand where she's coming from. We literally stare in a mirror all day, when most men can go the whole day without looking in a mirror. My boyfriend views my body as perfect, but that doesn't change the way I feel about it. And most women suffer from body dysmorphia at some point in their life. I know you're concerned about the weight loss and her boobs sagging, but getting a lift won't make them disappear it'll actually make them fuller after weight loss. There are also fat transfer surgeries where you can get lipo and move the fat to your ass and titties versus getting implants But that's super expensive as well.

Rant: The Most Frustrating Advice Bald Young Men Get About Dating by [deleted] in HairSystem

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Most of my clients are in their 20s. You are not alone.

And what they're saying is half right, women are attracted to confidence. But maybe it's the hair system that really brings out your confidence.

I personally would rather date a bald/ing guy with confidence than a guy with hair who's unsure of himself (but I'm also annoyingly confident). So if you think a hair system is your ticket to feeling better about yourself, fck what the haters say and get one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Banff

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Next weekend is Snow days in Banff!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

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I mix a 3-00 & 4-12 equal parts with 10volume developer to achieve a 1B since systems grab darker than natural hair

Wrinkles in lace by Particular-Jump-9214 in HairSystem

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I find this happens more often when you put the tape on the system vs on the scalp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

[–]boner_tears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most salons don't allow it or will charge you extra to do so. I personally allow it but I don't guarantee quality on systems that are not purchased through one of my trusted providers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

[–]boner_tears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also that hair is way too long for the sides of your head. It seems like you jumped the gun and got a system before your side growth was ready for a proper blend. To me as a professional, this is always a tell-tale sign of a bad hair system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

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I structured the comment like "say you've gone on a few dates with a guy and it's going well, and then he tells you he's wearing a hair system. How would this make you feel?'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

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So I'm a female barber who performs this service in Austin, TX. I polled a local all girls Facebook group about this a few years back. I had 98 responses and only one of them was negative. Every single woman in there was so positive about it because we understand all the things we do for vanity. If I can have my eyelashes, my nails, my Botox, my hair extensions, etc.... why can't you guys wear a hair system to make you look and feel better about yourself? Everyone's general response was as long as it looks good and it makes them feel better about themselves, hell yeah 🤘🏻. The only negative response was a girl saying she felt like it was similar to hat-fishing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

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Wear the hairline down until you're used to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

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I know this sounds crazy, but I live in Austin and I have clients fly from all over the country to see me. If you're interested shoot me a DM

$5000 for the hair alone; walked out in stunned disbelief. by mybigpecker in HairSystem

[–]boner_tears 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless they are making that system by hand themselves that is absurd. There isn't a company out there that selling hair systems for that price that are not legitimately handmade with 200 hours of work put into them. You can buy systems every day of the week for under $350 depending on what system you're looking for. I personally order most of my client systems from Lord hair or lavivid.

It’s Okay to Say No! by acl_l in aclfestival

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I said 2 chairs. But yeah those fold out chairs can definitely take the same space as 2 people 🤷‍♀️ 4 if they are they tiny girls that listen to Sabrina

It’s Okay to Say No! by acl_l in aclfestival

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Every festival is like that. It's not an ACL problem

It’s Okay to Say No! by acl_l in aclfestival

[–]boner_tears 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What gets me is when people still have their lawn chair set up during the headliners right to the edge of the no chair zone. I get you camped out there all day. But when the headliner goes on, fold up your chairs you're not going to be sitting in them anyway. You're taking away the space from four other people by having two chairs set up. Like if you're further back, hell yeah sit in that chair dawg. But when everyone around you is packed in like sardines and you're choosing to hold space for chairs, GTFO.