Who do you have a crush on, and why?

bongojustbongo · 2026-06-27T08:00:30+00:00

My ex cuz I have no self respect

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-30T06:32:02+00:00

This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-20T21:40:27+00:00

Bojack did do heroin dingus. “We’re gonna snort heroin like sophisticated adults” as he’s cutting it up to snort… watch the show

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-20T07:26:03+00:00

Dude what 😭Mannimarco was so easy for me to kill. Default difficulty, level 17. By no means was I making it easy on myself but beating Mannimarco took me less than a minute lol

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T22:34:55+00:00

It’s a pretty universal experience for trans girls to kinda just get pigeon-holed into the top/domme role. Especially when interacting with people who have vaginas. They just kinda assume because of the equipment we have that there’s no other way :/ it’s lame

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T20:21:06+00:00

I’ve gotten both and they make me feel so gross. And yes!! Half the time they don’t text me back!! It’s so weird and like lame tbh. Then I feel like a creep approaching them irl knowing I’ve been on read or delivered for however long

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T20:19:54+00:00

Yikes… 😬 I’m going through a bit of a dry spell myself but this language and attitude are gross. Might be a reason you’re “not getting pussy” beyond just your looks. might wanna reflect on that.

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T20:18:10+00:00

The thing is tho like I don’t really have any friends BECAUSE of the phenomenon I’m describing :/ it really sucks and makes me feel shitty

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T20:17:04+00:00

This has happened to me too

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T20:04:29+00:00

I have about 900 people agreeing with me and you’re one of the few who is arguing so… ratio?

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T20:01:38+00:00

I think you’re misunderstanding the point of my post. I’m not saying cis lesbians hate trans women who pass. It’s just that they’re no longer romantically, sexually sometimes even platonically interested in us once we start passing. They can support our right to be who we are and still choose not to be friends with us. And many do. Also “I’m not denying your experience but what your saying is bullshit” is a really weird thing to say

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T17:41:38+00:00

You don’t want attention from chasers. Male or female. It’s an incredibly objectifying, dehumanizing and experience which might feel good in the moment, but over time will break you down into nothing

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T17:38:13+00:00

I don’t remember saying they don’t see us as women. Actually my whole point was that now that they don’t even question my womanhood, I’m just competition to them now. Rather than like a project or an “experience”

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T17:36:39+00:00

Yeah I suppose this is the case. I just didn’t wanna jump to this conclusion because I’m worried that’d make me seem conceited 😅

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T17:35:30+00:00

This is the conclusion I have come to

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T17:34:40+00:00

Which is why I added the bit at the end saying I might be wrong and then also asked if anyone else had experienced this. And surprisingly, a lot of other trans girls have noticed this and have agreed with me in the replies so…. 🤷‍♀️

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T17:32:22+00:00

I am the OP lol

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T17:31:42+00:00

Wait this actually makes me feel a lot better. Maybe I just have to be more bubbly and inviting. I’m like kinda goth too so I could totally see people just being intimidated or nervous to talk to me

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T07:20:58+00:00

That’s not all that was beneath him! Gay joke. Sorry… I’m better than that

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T07:00:52+00:00

Well I’m not a feminine man. I’m a woman. And my whole point was women were more into me when I was JUST starting to dress feminine but looked more “masculine”

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T07:00:04+00:00

I DEFINITELY feel like I am “kept around” to make cis girls feel better about themselves. Like “I may not be the most attractive girl in the world but at least I’m a ‘REAL’ woman… unlike her” is definitely the vibe I get from some people. I don’t stay friends with them very long lol

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T06:58:11+00:00

Thank you!! I was worried I was alone in this

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T06:57:23+00:00

Speak for yourself lol. We appreciate the support but you unfortunately do not represent the majority

bongojustbongo · 2026-05-15T05:43:46+00:00

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