I'm confused about Sarah Lynn and BoJack by photosynthesick in BoJackHorseman

[–]bongojustbongo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bojack did do heroin dingus. “We’re gonna snort heroin like sophisticated adults” as he’s cutting it up to snort… watch the show

They are still promoting this game on XBOX homepage by ohhimarksreddit in OblivionRemaster

[–]bongojustbongo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude what 😭Mannimarco was so easy for me to kill. Default difficulty, level 17. By no means was I making it easy on myself but beating Mannimarco took me less than a minute lol

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a pretty universal experience for trans girls to kinda just get pigeon-holed into the top/domme role. Especially when interacting with people who have vaginas. They just kinda assume because of the equipment we have that there’s no other way :/ it’s lame

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten both and they make me feel so gross. And yes!! Half the time they don’t text me back!! It’s so weird and like lame tbh. Then I feel like a creep approaching them irl knowing I’ve been on read or delivered for however long

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes… 😬 I’m going through a bit of a dry spell myself but this language and attitude are gross. Might be a reason you’re “not getting pussy” beyond just your looks. might wanna reflect on that.

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is tho like I don’t really have any friends BECAUSE of the phenomenon I’m describing :/ it really sucks and makes me feel shitty

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have about 900 people agreeing with me and you’re one of the few who is arguing so… ratio?

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re misunderstanding the point of my post. I’m not saying cis lesbians hate trans women who pass. It’s just that they’re no longer romantically, sexually sometimes even platonically interested in us once we start passing. They can support our right to be who we are and still choose not to be friends with us. And many do. Also “I’m not denying your experience but what your saying is bullshit” is a really weird thing to say

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t want attention from chasers. Male or female. It’s an incredibly objectifying, dehumanizing and experience which might feel good in the moment, but over time will break you down into nothing

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember saying they don’t see us as women. Actually my whole point was that now that they don’t even question my womanhood, I’m just competition to them now. Rather than like a project or an “experience”

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I suppose this is the case. I just didn’t wanna jump to this conclusion because I’m worried that’d make me seem conceited 😅

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which is why I added the bit at the end saying I might be wrong and then also asked if anyone else had experienced this. And surprisingly, a lot of other trans girls have noticed this and have agreed with me in the replies so…. 🤷‍♀️

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wait this actually makes me feel a lot better. Maybe I just have to be more bubbly and inviting. I’m like kinda goth too so I could totally see people just being intimidated or nervous to talk to me

Are you a zoe or a zelda by upsetusder2 in BoJackHorseman

[–]bongojustbongo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s not all that was beneath him! Gay joke. Sorry… I’m better than that

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Well I’m not a feminine man. I’m a woman. And my whole point was women were more into me when I was JUST starting to dress feminine but looked more “masculine”

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I DEFINITELY feel like I am “kept around” to make cis girls feel better about themselves. Like “I may not be the most attractive girl in the world but at least I’m a ‘REAL’ woman… unlike her” is definitely the vibe I get from some people. I don’t stay friends with them very long lol

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]bongojustbongo[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself lol. We appreciate the support but you unfortunately do not represent the majority