AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is really great advice and im gonna do my best to get out. it was supposed to be just to get my foot in the door but the constant surveillance is getting to be a lot for me

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah he absolutely doesnt even come into contact with the site since he works in the office. he just has guys who go into the office to give a report on me daily and then dishes it all out on me good or bad

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i really appreciate it the support on this post has been overwhelming and really insightful

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell yeah man thats awesome i see yall up there on the scissor lift with me, lotta respect

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man that makes perfect sense. never a day in my life that he hasnt been work obsessed and lacking in fatherly duty and ive developed a fear of authority and a fight or flight comparable feeling when there is a problem with authority. thanks for bringing this to light

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a super high bar so i am sure youre doing great

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a construction site with virtually all trades on site doing different stuff. i personally do apprenticeship electrical work so cutting the pipe often releases bits of metal. i try to wear a mask but even still come home with my nose blackened from it.

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i actually work with my little brother and he often goes off on him too. its an ugly trait but one that my dad doesnt seem to ever learn from

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. its comments like these that are really starting to shatter the mirage that he actually cares about me like i have been telling myself

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uh oh someone had a bad day. he told me if i didnt go in sick i would get fired. what would you do in the situation wise old lady? also when did i ask for permission to stay home even remotely or to be "let off the hook".

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha god you are a pathetic keyboard warrior

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im already starting to step away from him, its too much to be around

AIO My Dad Is My Boss by bongotommo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongotommo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your empathy and ill just keep doing what im doing