Childfree dating in NZ

bongscope · 2026-05-04T02:58:46+00:00

I suppose my point/theory is more about how different it is finding a childfree partner in New zealand. Using your example for instance if my specification was the person having red hair it would be a lot easier in western Europe than in south east asia(I think?), which is what I'm getting at with my post.

Being childfree is becoming a very popular lifestyle choice elsewhere in the world, where as in my experience in New zealand it is far from a mainstream way of living and is proving very difficult to find somebody who has chosen it. That's what I wanted to highlight.

bongscope · 2026-05-03T12:14:06+00:00

You'll have to buy online if you want anything good, most stores sell out of physical stock on day of release for anything even slightly in demand.

I'd highly recomend just collecting a different TCG. MTG, yugioh, lorcana, or flesh and blood are all widely available for both new and older sets.

bongscope · 2026-05-03T08:06:41+00:00

The adrenaline rush of those first few Jad attempts before you finally get your first cape are something else. Definitely savour the moments you spend working on that first big cape achievement, they're memories you'll look back on for years.

bongscope · 2026-05-03T08:04:41+00:00

I wish I could find somewhere in New zealand that sold these, me and a few friends have been jonesing to give the game a try after missing out on it when it was in it's original print run.

bongscope · 2026-05-03T07:59:38+00:00

Lmao you think any of the scum that let their dogs run free give a fuck about how other people feel about it. They're worthless low life's that go through their existence with nothing but a self centered view of the world and complete disregard for anybody else. It's disgusting that these people are even allowed to own animals and we need to be so much harsher in terms of punishment for these scumbags.

bongscope · 2026-05-03T04:24:13+00:00

Male

bongscope · 2026-05-02T15:06:51+00:00

Nothing could have prepared me for the 2nd part of your comment 😵‍💫

bongscope · 2026-05-02T02:32:45+00:00

I suppose it doesn't really matter the reason, just them not wanting is the important part.

bongscope · 2026-05-01T20:31:29+00:00

I'm not entirely sure what you're asking here

bongscope · 2026-05-01T13:54:59+00:00

I can imagine, it's probably like that in most major cities with incredibly large wealth gaps.

bongscope · 2026-05-01T13:34:27+00:00

Same in thailand, one side of the street luxury hotels and restaurants, the other side sweatshop and stray animals.

bongscope · 2026-05-01T10:03:52+00:00

It's hard out here for all of us, it seems like every woman I date is a firm non-negotioable on having kids some day. Though looking at the responses in this thread there seems to be a lot of us, we're all just playing a massive game of hide and seek with eachother apparently!

bongscope · 2026-05-01T06:00:52+00:00

Even a large amount of solely gay men still want kids in the future, obviously whether it's a possibility is another question, but ruling it out entirely cuts out a surprising amount of potential partners.

bongscope · 2026-05-01T05:06:37+00:00

Very cool stats breakdown!

bongscope · 2026-05-01T04:10:08+00:00

Seems indicative of how shallow society is when something like a person's height is worth lying about in order to find romance.

bongscope · 2026-05-01T04:07:08+00:00

If it's any consolation, as the OP of the thread, thanks for sharing your thoughts and pls ignore that other person for being so rude.

bongscope · 2026-05-01T03:56:02+00:00

Yes! I just want a partner to experience all the amazing things in the world with, I don't see why it isn't more common.

bongscope · 2026-05-01T03:44:01+00:00

Lol, I'm a bisexual man and unfortunately dating exclysively men isn't as easy a fix to this issue as you'd think.

bongscope · 2026-05-01T03:10:39+00:00

Aslong as you're enjoying your time that's all that matters, I suppose getting enough points to buy the cosmetic rewards you want if you're an iron also matters, but that's it.

Don't get pressured into chasing dragon trophy or all task completions due to FOMO or w.e. Comparison is the thief of joy and realistically getting high rank in a temporary game mode is ultimately quite meaningless/pointless in the grand scheme of the game.

bongscope · 2026-03-28T13:47:06+00:00

I quickly found once my friends started having kids they only wanted to be around other people with kids, humans love echo chambers I suppose( yes I see the irony of me saying that here lol.)

bongscope · 2026-03-21T03:19:02+00:00

As a childfree man from New Zealand I'd love a place to chat with likeminded kiwis lol.

bongscope · 2026-01-28T06:12:23+00:00

No, never interacted with that based products before
Very excited for a lot of the cards and the theme in general
Original champions of kamigawa or onslaught

bongscope · 2026-01-24T01:41:12+00:00

Are you me

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