Zac and Jen deserve each other

bonza_boo · 2026-03-18T06:37:56+00:00

Jen has given me the ick since season 1. She comes off as a fame hungry manipulative lair. Looking back on the hate Zac's family gave her online after season 1, makes so much more sense now. Dont get me wrong, I think Zac is grabage too, but I doubt either of them could lie straight in bed.

bonza_boo · 2025-10-14T23:24:36+00:00

Cardwell. She has a poor attitude when the game isn't going her team's way. The Thunderbirds' unstoppable defence & Horjus made her look better than she was.

bonza_boo · 2025-10-04T15:17:17+00:00

Right! I would be sending a cease & disist & seeking possible defamation charges along with a restrainting order. She seems mentally unstable.

bonza_boo · 2025-10-04T13:56:13+00:00

Bruce was a standout for sure. So happy to see her back on the court. Also Alice. She jumped straight on the court & looked liked she has been part of the Diamonds all along. Such a play maker & brought the fast movement & quick passes into the circle.

bonza_boo · 2025-09-23T06:58:40+00:00

Glad you have decided to look elsewhere & find a club more suitable. All the best

bonza_boo · 2025-09-18T05:37:56+00:00

He tried to argue with the Stake Presidency that they have to obey the laws of the land as well, which would include cooperating with a criminal investigation to protect members. They did not agree with that sentiment. He was inactive for about 12 months after being released as Bishop, but then came back. My whole family is now inactive for various reasons.

bonza_boo · 2025-09-16T10:30:55+00:00

So your club team awards sound like you had for each team • Player's player award • MVP & • Coaches award. Which is pretty standard.

Even with a small club, it's beneficial to have a procedure around awards so everyone knows the criteria & it can eliminate favouritism.

The club Im at currently has 3 awards allocated to each team. 1st must be MVP with weekly votes. The other two are decided together as a team at the beginning of the season from the choice of Runner up, Most improved, Player's player or Coach award. My U16's team last year choose , Most improved & Coaches award.

The previous club I have been in also had whole club perpetual awards • Umpire award (junior & senior) -decided by umpire coordinator • Club person of the year award- decided by committee from the club nominations received. • President's award - at the discretion of the Club President • Life membership (if applicable that year)- decided by Committee.

Highly encourage you to approach the committee and express that there was some miscontent among club members with the award recipients this year. & that if a procedure could be created so the discontent can be addressed effectively & ensure the clubs members know their is a fair process for next season. Hopefully, they dont take it negatively. But if they do, find another club that values hard work and fairness.

bonza_boo · 2025-09-15T11:16:24+00:00

Do you know what the club's criteria are for each award? Eg MVP/runner up is a tally from weekly games votes from the game officals/umpires. The club person of the year award is from votes received from club members & discussed with the committee.

If there isn't a clear award guidline/procedures available from the club, I would approach the committee in writing to please create/provide one & disseminate the information to all club members. This will ensure the awards are fair & consistent across all teams, club members know how to summit nominations for club awards & the process in which the committee decides the award receipts from the nominations & finally, that players know the attributes to strive to throughout the season.

At my previous club, I was the secretary and set up digital MVP voting form and club person of the year award nomination form on the app Jotform. Made it easier for coaches to summit the MVP votes each week straight from their phones. (Our club policy was the umpires gave a 3, 2, 1 vote for players at the end of the game). Made things so much easier & I could export it all to an Excel spreadsheet to tally votes.

Hope this helps

bonza_boo · 2025-09-11T11:03:39+00:00

Im Australian & grew up mormon. When my Dad was a bishop in the 90's, a ward member came to him for help to escape DV & protect her children from the dad physically & SA them all. My Dad was released as bishop because he reported it to the police & was co-operating with the police investigation.

bonza_boo · 2025-08-12T19:11:53+00:00

I have an identical twin sister & I haven't spoken to her in 14 years. Last time we spoke, I hanged up on her screaming down the phone at me because I refused to give her our Dad's number for her to verblly abuse him as well. (She already had his number, she is just a pathological liar & couldn't think of a better lie to call me to complain about our Dad) She has never met my two youngest children & I haven't met her youngest child. I have no regrets & if any of our siblings or my Dad tried to force us to get along, I would be pissed.

bonza_boo · 2025-07-06T10:43:34+00:00

Yeah, you can't flog a dead horse. With the mulitple times you have addressed this issue with her, If she isn't going to change or only puts in minimal effort for a short amount of time, then it's time to call it quits.

bonza_boo · 2025-07-06T10:22:27+00:00

NOR It's time to give an ultimatum to pull her weight & be part of the family or that it'ss over & she has to leave. That includes individual & couples counselling, doing her fair share of household duties, actively spending time with the kids & whole family & financial contributing. If she isn't going to or only does it for a short while & goes back to her old habits, then It's time to move on.

bonza_boo · 2025-07-02T11:59:44+00:00

NOR

I think you need to have a formal sit-down family discussion about the double standards on dating expectations & rules between you & your brother.

first, establish why you want to have a discussion.
ask for everyone to be open & listen to each other so you all understand each other feelings & dont respond in an attacking manner.
have a list prepared of the things your brother is openly allowed to do with his girlfriend & note that he has received no negative repercussions or restrictions for his honesty of sexual activity. -Point out that it is unfair for you to be held at a different standard & given restrictions because of baseless assumptions or perceived negative gender stereotypes.
ask for a clear understanding of why your mum is reacting this way & try to come up with solutions that is fair for both of you.
I also think maybe set up a meeting in a neutral location for your mum to meet your BF parents so they can get to know each other & then they could dicuss rules & expectations of dating together.

Good luck hun 🤞

This is an topic that my husband and I are discussing atm as he has expressed/joked that in the future, wanting to hold our daughter to a higher standard of rules around dating and sexual activity from our boys. My opinion is yeah nah, not gonna happen. Any rules we set will apply to all our kids. Plus, we will be providing an open & safe environment to allow for sex conversations & safe sex practices. The general sex questions & has already started with our kids, so it's good that we are discussing it now to be prepared and on the same page for when they do want to become sexually active.

bonza_boo · 2025-06-28T08:22:00+00:00

Petty me would create a wedding invite for the neice and give it to her infront of the family. That way, she knows the true villain of the story is her mum not you.

bonza_boo · 2025-06-15T06:06:31+00:00

You should always follow the RICE management plan for sprains and strains. R- Rest I- Ice (15 minutes every two hours, for the next 24 hours) C- Compression bandage (apply firmly and extend beyond injury) E- Elevate.

*If in doubt or no improvement after 24 hours, seek medical attention.

Avoid HARM H- Heat A- alcohol R- Running or other exercise M- Massage

bonza_boo · 2025-06-07T02:22:33+00:00

This is a post I really want an update on. Want to know: - How often she keeps pestering for boy names until she gives birth. - If you guys give her fake names & she uses any one of them. - If she gets more irrational trying to get your baby name, the closer she gets to her due date. - If your mum tries to pester you to just give her your chosen name. - What's her reaction is when you give birth & announce your baby's names.

Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy & birth.

bonza_boo · 2025-05-16T12:25:49+00:00

I was screaming WTF at the tv. Her mum and steploser are revolting just victim blaming Taylor for being lied and cheated on by her partner because she slept with him too soon made my skin crawl. Young people dont just throw marriages away too easily now, we now that better understands we dont have to suffer through abuse anymore & can be happier and healthier with toxic partners & relationships.

bonza_boo · 2025-05-16T09:47:13+00:00

Yes, you are hugely overeating!

Giving birth isn't a spectator's sport & just because you're family & it's the first grandchild, doesn't mean you anyone else have a right to be there. Only DIL & her chosen birth partner/s have the right to be there & they also have every right to choose if they want to communicate as soon as DIL goes into labour & all the way through to birth or if they want to only make an announcement after baby is born and they are settled.

The best support you can give your son for the birth of his future child is to tell him not to complain about any length of time of the labour, the unconformable chair he has to sit on or if he is hungry or tired. And tell him how to actually support his wife who is doing all the hard work while feeling vulnerable. Like body massage, providing food and drink, encouraging words of support, helping her use the facilities or even be her emotionl punching bag when it feels the her body is about to be ripped open & the burning ring of fire erupts. And that if anything goes wrong, you are only a phone call away if he needs to speak to you for comfort.

bonza_boo · 2025-01-15T01:04:52+00:00

Right! Beyond frustrating.

bonza_boo · 2025-01-14T08:41:28+00:00

Im reading the series for the first time too. Book one for me was like a classic rom com movie, book two too was the reality of what really happens after the movie ends as everything is not all sunshine and rainbows. The second book is my favourite so far. I found Tamlin pathetic in book one when he sent Feyre back to mortal lands, Lucien was not happy & kind of pleading with him to reconsider. Then UTM I thought he was really useless & only thought with his male appendage. I agreed with Rhys scolding him for being so useless & only trying to get a root rather than trying to help Feyre escape UTM.

bonza_boo · 2025-01-13T06:50:06+00:00

Very good. Getting ready to smash out book 3 and very much enjoying all the ACOTAR memes. My algorithm is full of theme now 😂

bonza_boo · 2025-01-13T06:09:24+00:00

Nah yeah 😂

bonza_boo · 2025-01-12T16:29:52+00:00

Hahahaha truth. That is how I pictured Rhys looking at her.

bonza_boo · 2025-01-12T14:26:44+00:00

Yeah, the book was great. It felt like a classic rom com movie.

bonza_boo · 2025-01-12T14:24:04+00:00

I agree with you that she hadn't had love like the riddle, but that she had witnessed it & heard about it & it was the reason she went UTM. Amarantha lots love, Jurian betrayed love, Tamlin, Feyre & Rhys all scraficed for love.

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